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Shadowgirl09
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My ex is killing me
Relationship Stress / by Shadowgirl09
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 January 27th, 2018
...See more Hello everyone, I really need some advice on my current situation: I broke up with my boyfriend because after three years togheter he still wasn't ready for marriage but I wanted to and I felt like he was never going to be ready so I left him. Leaving him wasn't easy for me beacuse I really loved him but thinking that he didn't want to get married and thinking that he was just "playing" me caused me depression that lasted 6 months and then I decided to leave him cause I couldn't stand feeling sad and alone even though we were togheter. So i broke up with him and anxiety joined the party, so I was feeling sad and anxious by this point. I started seeing a therapist (a couple of month before the break up) and I'm currently working on my issues to try and feel better. The problem is him. After the break up he kept writing me saying that he was thinking about our situation to try and find a solution, but then everytime I would bring up the subject he would yell at me. I stopped writing him back and he got mad but then started to writing me less and less at least. The I wrote him one day because I was feeling sad and missing him, needless to say that it was a big mistake. He treated me very badly and I ended up not aswering to his accusation. At this point I also had a couple of dates but things aren't so great overall, so two days ago when he writes again asking how I was I was strong and didn't answer. But this morning I woke up to find another text where he said that he just wanted to know how I was given that some time had passed. I didn't answer to this one either but I found myself crying all day today, I feel sad and alone and angry at him because I dont' understand why would he keep writing me when I ask him time and time again not to. He's slowly killing me inside.
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