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ShadowMyCat
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PathStep 51 Compassion hearts1,661 Forum posts9 Forum upvotes30 Current upvotes30 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2024 Member sinceJune 20, 2023
Bio

Hi,

I'm a mom to 3 beautiful baby girls ranging from 3 years old, almost 2 years old and a 10 month old. They are my world and I love them dearly.



I also have a fur baby named Shadow shes in her Halloween costume in my profile picture


I have no friends or family. I'm a hermit not really by choice.


Life has been an absolute struggle and I'm working really hard on not drowning


Recent forum posts
I can't be the only one
Relationship Stress / by ShadowMyCat
Last post
 22 hours ago
...See more My bf thinks that in a submissive and dominate roles thar he's In charge of everything right down to what my boundaries are. I've explained to him that not the case and it leads to nothing but fights and arguments. I've explained that he is supposed to uphold and be clear abou my boundaries not try ans break them.he dose not understand that thr submissive IA actually the one in control and it's honestly sending me.
Life really kicking me
General Support / by ShadowMyCat
Last post
 November 8th
...See more My bf dosnet work and hadn't for a year. My youngest child of 3 Is going to be 1 in January. My elsedeet is going to be 4 in February and my middle child 3 in May. These are his children. We have no money and are not even pay check to paycheck. I'm baby bonus to baby bonus paying rent with it aks the rest is bills and food. App he needs is a part time job. But here we are.. Anyways yesterday he said he was going to go and get sole money form his mom so I cjs do.laundy. I'd typically go there to do it but we hagebno Gas and this man had chosen to do to much thos weekend without any gas. (He plans to go put mon-wed but we again have no gas or money so..plus we live on the other side of town) He later tells me he not asking his mom for money. Cool. Youngest needs milk but k. Ao I scavenge for milk. I go to the store to grt thr milk. Turns out I was 30cents short. She still gave me the milk. Bless her heart honeslty highlight of my day. I leave the store walk to the road. I'm paying attention to the lights. It's my turn to walk. Ik walking and I got his by a car. Dude was drinking you could tell by hos demeanor and smelled of weed. I screamed. I'm hurt I wobble home. My neighbour who saw it wll was asking me if.im okay and actually caring about me and my well being. Hold on to this it's important. I grt in the door hug my child and tell my bf I was hit by a car. He hasn't moved form his Xbox. He tells me how didnyou manage thar.. like it was my ultimate fault not the guy driving. Like he showed no.csre ajs instead was Mad at me. I'm broke sore and beaten down
Hello
General Support / by ShadowMyCat
Last post
 June 24th, 2023
...See more Hi I am new this but Iam trying to get better mentally for my babies and myself. I am on a self healing journey. I am a mom of 2 (#3 is on the way) being a mom is all i know and I am proud to say i love it. I have a black cat named Shadow shes my mini therapist and always there for me The bot told me to introduce myself so here I am
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