Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
ScarlettB60
1 179 M Embraced 1
PathStep 1 Compassion hearts25 Forum posts6 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2021 Member sinceMarch 15, 2021
Recent forum posts
ScarlettB60 profile picture
Adult child wants nothing to do with me
50 & Over Community / by ScarlettB60
Last post
 March 16th, 2021
...See more IRS hard to k ow where to start. I was married to an alcoholic who was at times abusive to my 2 children. I was in denial about that at the time and just in survival mode. Now I know I am codependent with my children, esp the youngest. I am told continually that I am a liar, an emotional abuser, and she wants nothing to do with me. I made lots of mistakes but I never consided myself a horrible person. I know she speaks from a lot of pain but I also think she may be borderline or maybe just extreme anger. IDK. The pain that it brings me is overwhelming and to top it off my current husband is absolutely no comfort. I'm going to start going to CoDA meetings tomorrow. Just venting. I thought 60 and retired was going to be nice but last 2 years have been hellish.
Search more from @ScarlettB60
Community updates
Considering Therapy?
Talk to an expert therapist
Badges & Awards
8 total badges
Hand Shake Linked First Post Reaching out First Compassion Bundled Teammate Forum Friend
Report an issue