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Sashapikachuu
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PathStep 4 Compassion hearts95 Forum posts18 Forum upvotes30 Current upvotes30 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2022 Member sinceJune 18, 2022
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On the healing process of a toxic relationship. im a survivor. We can help each other, if you have similar experiance.


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How do I deal with post betrayal trust issue?
Relationship Stress / by Sashapikachuu
Last post
 October 10th, 2022
...See more Been seven months after ending a one sided toxic relationship with a guy showed narcissistic traits. I now found myself have trust issues on people I met.. I doubt their intentions . I always tried to analyze them. Would I over analyze thus miss the one that worths my trust?
What’s the motive behind all these lies
Relationship Stress / by Sashapikachuu
Last post
 June 27th, 2022
...See more this guy invested money and time on me. He initiate conversations all the time. I supported him when he needed me… I thought it’s love. I expected a future with him in my life. He faked a future, his action wasn’t consistent with his words…while I noticed this, he would always find reasons and excuses even lies to justify himself. Gaslight me to doubt myself as if I misunderstood him, he always suggest that we have a conversation after I wanted to breakup, and he was always calm in the conversation and I’m the one who’s being emotional. Yet no matter how much efforts I put on those conversations. Nothing seems work. on and off for almost one year . Finally he dumped me after he found a replacement. Before I found out he cheated. He still lied about no relationship, don’t want new relationship…accusing me a crazy woman in front of his new gf .lied on her face that he dated me only one year and me his only ex. my questions are what is this guys motive by doing this? he could be upfront with girls that he is looking for casual relationship. he could told me at the beginning that he doesn’t want a serious relationship and marriage. at least he could confess to me while I pushed him for an answer instead of making me emotional drained and wasting my time. why making so many lies and stab me from time to time. men are complicated… now I have trust issues.
So I dated a liar for five years
Relationship Stress / by Sashapikachuu
Last post
 August 28th, 2022
...See more It’s frustrating thinking of myself spent five years with a liar. those red flags not introduce me to his family. no taking me to parties with his friends. fake for commitment without taken action. verbally fake it as he is planning a future for us. giving me all the details. postpone everything ,and blamed me for not pushing him enough. never admit his part after he did something that hurts my feelings. no empathy. silence treatment. never tell me the truth. what for? Just make me confusing and mentally drained and torture me. its just horrible how could he being such a good actor. those good moments we ever had were all just a play he acted in. ive seem those eyes with love before. I must be blind… just to keep me stay that he fakes everything. dump me when the new replacement is ready.. took her home the day before the breakup. Could the guy I dated a narcissist or just a horrible man. he is always know that I want a family …
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