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SakuraJ3
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Just another relationship I ruined
Relationship Stress / by SakuraJ3
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 December 30th, 2019
...See more So I recently broke up with someone, because I felt like I was just being a burden, and that I needed a break. They agreed(the first part) said I was dragging them down. And I think I was, I shared too much. I tried to get better, but I couldn't. They couldn't help me, even though they tried, I was grateful for that. They said they still wanted to be friends, but I said I didn't think that was a good idea because of the possibly toxic emotional connection I have with this person. And also. I'm still in love with them yeah..... The worst part is how much it hurts. Even though I knew it would happen eventually.I was stupid for starting the relationship, I knew she was going to leave in January anyways,.. I thought by breaking up with them I could finally figure out myself, but I've just made myself worse. And I'm lonely, but like I have friends, I was so happy, I hadn't been happy in a long time. Now I just feel empty (sorry for wasting your time) I just need some advice on how to deal with this.
It's Kinda My fault
Relationship Stress / by SakuraJ3
Last post
 November 17th, 2019
...See more I have always struggled with taking care of myself, wheter it be sleeping or just simple things like drinking and eating. It used to be forgetful, but now its just out of carelessness. I recently started dating someone, and they started noticing the skipping of meals, and my ever present self-deprecating humor. They are for a good reason concerned, but to be honest I don't know how to explain how I am without feeling defensive of my poor opinions of my self-worth. To add on, this relationship is a secret from my mother(I'm a teenager) because she didn't really react all that well when I came out as gender-fluid. Just some advice would be nice I suppouse?
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