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RenFox
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Curious and Confused
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by RenFox
Last post
 July 24th, 2023
...See more Hello! I am 19 and have only ever dated guys (4) and thought about guys in terms of a relationship. However, even as I dated them, I knew in the back of my mind that I'd date a woman if "the right one" came. Idk how to explain what the characterization of "the right one" is, as I'm just as confused as the statement lol. I guess to simplify, I'd date a woman, but I'm completely terrified by it. Not to mention, being a woman and knowing what we are capable of, ik women are terrifying 🤣. We literally push humans out of us lol. This is besides the point though. Women scare me, but I'd date one. *Sigh* I've coped with this realization. Though it brings up a question that I've questioned for some years now. What am I? Ik I'm not straight. Yet bisexual doesn't quite fit as of rn to me (though I have considered bi-curious). Ik I don't have to label myself, but I'm a person who's more comfortable knowing what something is than beating around the bush for an explanation. So far, I've narrowed it down to Heteroflexible. I lean more towards men, but I'd date/be with a woman. P.S. I'll also add that my last intentions are to disrespect the LGBTQIA+ community, which is partially why I didn't feel comfortable labeling myself as bisexual and knowing that it wasn't quite right. I'm not someone who just goes up to people either and talk to them. But I can be talkative with people ik. So, the whole "exploring my sexuality" thing isn't really something I've considered until after college. Anyway, sorry for the long post, but can someone help me out with this?
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