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RelicCube
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PathStep 189 Compassion hearts148 Forum posts62 Forum upvotes105 Current upvotes105 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2023 Member sinceMarch 8, 2023
Bio

Hi welcome to my About You page \😁/

I like videogames, art, writing poetry

I'm 38 years old and I'm a bit timid about things in life but I'm here to flourish, heal from trauma, and try to change my life around! Hopefully, make a few friends along the way!

Recent forum posts
i might not even care, don't know where to start
7 Cups Online Therapy / by RelicCube
Last post
 April 26th, 2023
...See more I've spent most of my life if not all of it hating myself that I don't even care about others as well. This might be the cause-effect of my childhood trauma and this self-realization just occurred under years of self-lies trying not to confront my feelings about things or do anything about it. I've hurt others verbally, mocked their pain, being avoidant, dissociating when talking to, and slowly disappearing into the background without a word. I didn't do this with ill intent but I'm tired of not being upfront with honest, and talking to them, without a more caring nature. I can do physical things for them but mentally I'm just doing it for myself to feel alive I guess. which had a short-term effect. I'm 38 and I'm lacking self-reliant with codependency that gets disability checks I'm living with a family who wants me to leave now cause of my actions/non-actions for years. My only plan to get better is to pick up a part-time job and get therapy, other than living somewhere else by myself scares me.
Hello, I'm new to the this Sub-community :D
7 Cups Online Therapy / by RelicCube
Last post
 April 27th, 2023
...See more Hi, I'm RelicCube and I'm a 38 male. my challenges in the present time I'm trying to work on my codependency, trauma, some traits of lying to myself and others, manipulation, and avoidance. some other challenges are lacking active listening and communication skills. Sometimes I come off ignorant online or dead silent in IRL. I've avoided and lost relationships because of avoiding opening up and being honest. I came to 7 cups middle of last month but I've been using this site actively for the last 3 weeks or so to start on the path to recovery and be more healthy toward myself and others. It's good to be here with you all!😊
Character head portaits-Drawings
Arts & Crafts / by RelicCube
Last post
 April 11th, 2023
...See more I started some character head portraits for a dream game I would like to make someday and I would like to share them here. Haven't been inspired or motivated to draw for a while.
Afraid going to a bad crossroads
35 & Over Community / by RelicCube
Last post
 March 10th, 2023
...See more Hi, I'm 38 and I have a lot to say but at this current time in my life, I'm having trouble with independence,self-hate, and unwanted survival skills growing up(using toxic behaviors like lying[everyone including myself], manipulating, constantly looking for approval to validate my own existence and lack of self-care, snapping at people) atop of losing relationships and not knowing who I am in the process and constant falling into old patterns[do good for a little bit and doing it all over again for years or not even doing it for myself. I don't talk to anyone and it's making matters worse that I don't do anything about it, even knowing I need to talk about things and ACT non-toxic to get better, which is really a struggle that's heading down a dangerous crossroads...I would like to about this in detail. {I never talked to anyone about anything and I don't know where to start}
New guy here
35 & Over Community / by RelicCube
Last post
 April 10th, 2023
...See more Hi I'm new here ,the name is RelicCube 👋😅
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