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LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Quest4me2
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 October 17th, 2022
...See more I have a history of trauma. I can not see myself romantically involved with a man ever again. And due to a lot of issues with not having that good enough mother as a child, I look towards females. However, I know one can not replace that loss, I'm still working on grieving it. I want to make friends with females, as I never had that as a child either. I have and do feel a huge desire or crave a close relationship with a female. I have actually confused my desire for this with love for, of all people my therapist. Of course I brought it up and we talked about it. I don't want to bring it up anymore. So it's why I'm here. How do I know if I truly am a lesbian or if it's just part of the friendship/ closeness that I'm more attracted to. I have been with women before. Just a one time thing. When I think of being with a man, friends only, since it has not happened as men will cross or have crossed my boundary and I decided it's not an option anymore. Do I think sex with a man...not so much. A girl...very much more attracted to that image than a man. Is this something that I need to bring back up in therapy once I have found a friend, (girl)and see if these feelings come up to judge if it's one way or another?? I don't really like labels on sexuality but it would just help me to understand where I see myself, I have thought asexual or ??? Thanks for your support, suggestions or advice...have a great weekend!
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