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Perfectlyimperfect87464
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PathStep 3 Compassion hearts334 Forum posts98 Forum upvotes241 Current upvotes241 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2023 Member sinceJanuary 7, 2023
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Thanks for coming in ,I have nothing worth while to share though.

If you are a do gooder here for a charity purposes , don't come around.

Don't take it to heart, you are a wonderful person. But I don't want to be fixed anymore. I just want to love atleast some of my broken bits. And I need someone who knows how real struggles can be. It's okay if they have scars from a different battle than mine. But people like us will know how to  mourn and joke about our fun life at right moments  and never say words like "I am sorry you had to go through such  a terrible experience' . Those are really kind words, But also a brutal reminder about how fucked up my life is than the "normal"


Long story short ( this is bad )


I grew up with parents who thought it was cool to SA  their kids (yeah , what  the actual fuck? I understand, you can go if you want ) . And the fun part ? The sick sick part of me enjoyed all the pleasure very well . Well atleast until I knew what was happening. Then it was a roller coaster ride. Shame , defence , abuse ,self harm , drugs )

(You have my respect if you read it till here ) How am I now? , better than the worst . I am safe from them. I go to therapy . It's hopeful. But I would like to talk to someone who knows how real the struggle is. It's indeed soo good of all listners, who don't share any of this experience to come here and be there for people like me. I adore you people. But I  am sorry if I am sounding rude , but I need someone who will know what it's like to be haunted down by memorie.  Just to talk (I don't do it offline, why ? Because I am a freak who gets panick attack when someone taps me on my shoulder)





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Voice of Imperfection
Journals & Diaries / by Perfectlyimperfect87464
Last post
January 20th, 2023
...See more Hello there, welcome to my space. I don't know what I am planning to put here yet. But there would be some triggers, so be aware of that before you go ahead. I will try to put TW in such posts. This thread is open for replies. However please be aware that I use it as my safe place , SO PLEASE TAKE CARE THAT YOU ARE NOT BEING RUDE HERE. If you have a different opinion about what I say , it is my humble request that you don't start an argument about it here. ~ PerfectlyImperfect
When was the last time you thought you would make it through this ?
Trauma Support / by Perfectlyimperfect87464
Last post
January 31st, 2023
...See more When was the last time you felt you would make it out ? My therapist asked me today . I didn't have a specific answer. The memories of such occasions were very clear . However they seemed miles away from where I stood. Like a distant memory of someone who passed away. What a futile attempt it is to to wish of life would have been a little less injust. Yet , i wished it would be . How different I would have been if it could become true... I immediately stopped . I felt like someone shoved their hand in my torso and started stroking my organs while a therapist sits there observing and then asks me, "now, how does that make you feel?". Deep down I do believe it's worth it . I tell myself - this too shall pass . I wouldn't be able to look back and smile at my accomplishments but I know I will be damn proud of it
How are you guys ?
General Support / by Perfectlyimperfect87464
Last post
January 18th, 2023
...See more "Fine" or if you are in a mood to be civil "Fine , you?" You are not supposed to say "I am hurting and I cry myself to sleep these days. And oh yes, I haven't had any real conversation with people since a long time , so please stay and talk to me because I don't want to be alone anymore , please" , RIGHT? The question is 'how are you" , not "how you you want to be" !!
A Letter To You
General Support / by Perfectlyimperfect87464
Last post
January 17th, 2023
...See more Dear You, I want you to know, first and foremost, how special you are. And I don’t mean it in the way your parents do when they boast about you to their friends and your family, because that always seemed forced, even though I’m sure they meant well. No, I want you to know how you light up the world with your smile when you show it off. So please, show it off more. I want you to promise me this, even when it gets hard, which I know it will and probably still is right now at this moment. You use more of your muscles when you smile, so stretch it out so wide that it hurts and remember when you grow older and see wrinkles around your mouth that you got them from smiling! I know people are trying to reach out to you to tell you that everything is going to be alright and that they’re there for you. Please – and I can’t stress this enough – don’t push them away or shut them out. You may not want to hear it, but those people are there for you and would do anything to help you. So, give them a chance even when you don’t think they’ll understand your pain. You’ll never know if you don’t let them in.You’re feeling alone right now. So alone that you don’t think anyone can see the pain you’re going through. I want you to know I see you, okay? I can see the pain written all over your face because I know the look of someone trying so hard to pretend like they’re alright when they’re crumbling on the inside. You’re not alone, you have people in your life, and even people you didn’t see coming, who are more than willing to reach out and be there for you. I know you feel like you can’t get through this. I know it seems like your world is coming down on you and you can’t find the strength to get back up. You’re spending your days crying in your room, in the shower, while doing laundry, and you can’t eat, sleep or find the ambition to go outside and breathe in the fresh air. Do you want to know how I know this? Because this is exactly what I’ve been doing too. I’m on the verge of tears right now because I’m going through what is probably the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with in my life right now. To be honest with you, I’m barely hanging on by a thread. I could sit here and tell you in a matter of hours, days and weeks everything will get better. That you will eventually be able to look back at this moment in your life, and maybe even laugh about it. But for those who can’t look back yet, that’s alright too. I’m on your side. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to look back and laugh at what I’m going through. But I know I’ll one day look back and tell myself how proud I am for making it through when I wanted to give up. So, hang in there. You’re important to this world and have so much talent and so many ideas to give. You have a light inside you that, if it were to leave this world, there would be a slight darkness that hangs over everyone. Please. take one day at a time. Everything will eventually fall back into place, so just keep going. I know you want all the answers now, but I can’t give them to you, I can’t even give them to myself. I’m with you though, right along the way. We will both get through this. Sincerely, A Friend P . S This isn't my creation. I didn't state it at the beginning because I felt it's better to read the letter first and then come here. No I don't like to snatch credit. For the first time in a very long time , it made me feel heard and understood (though I didn't say anything.) It made me realise that I am not the only one struggling. As sick as it may sound. It made me feel better. because I remembered I am not alone. it gave me a moment to cry , to feel self pity . Then it imparted courage, happiness, confidence and hope. It may not be useful for all of you. But I hope it makes you feel a little better
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