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Oakley14
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Number of ratings96 Number of reviews30 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMay 5, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 588 People helped151 Chats553 Group support chats115 Listener group chats2 Forum posts28 Forum upvotes19
Bio

Hi there. I have had some tough times in life, I found this website, and someone totally awesome helped me out by listening. I have experience with depression, anxiety, relationships, & loss of a loved one. If you'd like to chat, send me a PM to set up a time. Have a great day.

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Chat Rooms--How to handle different situations----
Group Support / by Oakley14
Last post
 December 12th, 2014
...See more Hi All, I need some feedback---on the proper way to handle different situations in the various chat rooms. For example: I see a lot of guests/members ganging up on one particular member/guest. IE: discussing eating a horse...which upsets one member, they plead for them to stop, they persist. Another---Religion. Another-- Is it proper to discuss sex in the various chat rooms? Another--Cursing.......I have asked members/guests to watch the language they use. I have viewed other Mods letting it go. Another-- Asking for money wires--donations. Is this allowed? I thought it was not. Yet I viewed a listener giving wiring money to a member. Please advise on the proper way to go about the various situations. I love being a part of this site. But I am nervous about pressing any issue. I don't want to over step any boundary. My usual method is 3 warnings then I mute them. Is that acceptable??   Thanks!  Oakley14  
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A constant moving blue line
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Oakley14
Last post
 August 17th, 2016
...See more Where chat requests usually pop up, all I have is a constant moving blue line???
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Help
Depression Support / by Oakley14
Last post
 May 14th, 2014
...See more I am looking for someone to chat with who has teenage kids. I am having the same issues with my Son. I only have one child so I am at a loss how to deal with this situation. Please shoot me a PM if you would be willing to chat.
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Feedback & Reviews
It was an enjoyable experience to talk to you. Thank you.
Great listener! Made me feel better.
good at bonding with listeners and very supportive
Kind and awesome human being. So happy to chat with her and relate.
Kind listener, offering good advice
Great! Thank you!
Quite helpful. Thanks!
well quite sympathetic
I am satisfied with your level of profession. You have a good listening ear and are willing to talk to me. You care about who your talking to simply show that you care. A job well done. Don't give up.
I am satisfied with your level of profession. You have a good listening ear and are willing to talk to me. You care about who your talking to simply show that you care. A job well done. Don't give up.
More listeners should be like this great human being we could all learn a lesson from this person . Compassion is a gift but only if you share it with someone else.thankyou Oakley 14
Super sweet and amazing support
Thank you so much.
Great thank you
Thanks for taking the time to talk to me. Seems good. :)
She was helpful and knew what I was going through
amazing perspective!
What a wonderful person!!! Very helpful!!
i just started talking to oakley14 but so far everything is going good
Thoroughly understands the situation to make sure that all is clear with both parties before starting the conversation.
good
Great
I feel they really care about my problem
Great Person!
Oakley14 has been the best listener/supporter i've been in contact with yet. I have spoken to 2 other "listeners" who were little to no help.
good to talk 2
Very helpful
Nice to actually be able to say that I'm a fellow listener and be able to actually talk and not be disconnected on :-)
Related to my issues
Thanks oakley. You are wonderful person who listened to me patiently.
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