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...See more So 10 years ago I met my now wife, we started dating for a few months and ended up splitting up after 5 months or so. She got back with her ex for a few months and then found out she was pregnant, they separated and we got back together. I always knew deep down that the baby was most likely not mine and I was okay with that. I'm not a perfect person by any means, I've emotionally cheated on her way more than I'd like to admit but we moved passed it. We had 2 more kids and I wasn't always the best husband or father like I should have been. Her ex has always popped in periodically to try and break us apart and it never worked for the most part. Fast forward to last year at the end of August, my wife had been talking to him about our child that was possibly his and one thing led to another and she went and met with him and cheated on me with him while she was supposed to be with her family for her brother's birthday. I forgave her for the most part because I know I hadn't been the best husband I could be but it still hurts. We got back together and it's been a little over a year now and here he comes again trying to separate us and our marriage isn't in the best of places because I have a problem with getting comfortable. Now she is unsure of being with me but still showing me signs of wanting to be with me all while still wanting to talk to him, I'm lost and I don't understand what I can do to save my marriage. I love her with all my heart and soul and am willing to put in whatever it takes to make this work but it seems to be too late

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