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NexxyCat
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PathStep 10 Compassion hearts37 Forum posts15 Forum upvotes12 Current upvotes12 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2021 Member sinceMarch 17, 2021
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Hi. I've never really used an app like this but I'm trying it out. I've always been pretty good at giving advice so feel free to message me! I love video games, cooking, reading, science, horror movies and animals. ^~^
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Relationship Stress / by NexxyCat
Last post
 May 17th, 2021
...See more I feel like I've nowhere else to turn. I'm terrible at meeting people in real life. Ive been to a few parties, I've been to bars. I've hung out at parks and arcades. Never have i had someone approach me and i just don't have the courage to approach someone else especially since i have horrible anxiety that cripples me at every turn. I've tried dating apps but they either want you to pay money just to mesage people or most of the people aren't looking for long term. The one app i did use and was having luck on banned me because a guy reported me for something false after i told him i wasn't interested. Which screwed me over because i had a couple conversations going with others that were going extremely well. I messaged the apps developers and they refused to do anything about it and wouldn't believe me. I've lived a life of ridicule being overweight and I'm working on fixing it among some other issues but i feel I'm never going to find someone to spend my life with. I can be happy by myself but i really want my forever partner and feel I've run out of options.
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Personality Disorders Support / by NexxyCat
Last post
 December 19th, 2021
...See more Hi there. I've been diagnosed with schizotypal pd among the other mental illnesses i suffer from. I have severe anxiety disorder, major depressive disorder, and bipolar disorder. Usually people understand the anxiety and depression aspects of my mental health, but explaining the SPD has been significantly harder. I'm currently in a relationship and it causes major issues when the paranoia really kicks in and i have severe episodes. I'm distant from my partner, i make accusations that afterwards i know to be untrue, and i don't even have a social life outside of this relationship because i feel i can't trust anyone and everyone is out to sabotage me. My partner tries to be understanding but he does get really angry with me and seems like he can't see my side of things and that i never mean to do harm. My thoughts spiral out of control at the slightest hint something seems off even if it isn't. I need help and to know if anyone has any tips that i can try to help him understand why i am the way i am. I feel i don't do a good enough job with it and i don't want the tension we have almost constantly because he never knows when I'm going to snap. Its always been extremely hard for me to have a relationship and maintain it, usually because my partner does something unforgivable but also because i can't always control my thoughts and its too much for people to put up with. But i want this relationship to work and i don't want to mess it up but i don't know how to help him make sense of my condition when even i can't make sense of it at times.
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