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...See more So I’ve been with my husband for 20 years. We have a mutual female friend. I’ve known her way longer. My husband goes to her parties that she has literally every weekend or if she’s going to a Friends cookout or gathering my husband gets an invite. I recently just found out he’s been going without telling me. He tells me he’s out working late at night and I believed him. now that he knows that i know he goes to her parties he says that her male friends are the ones that invite him and he just goes without telling me. my “friend” is not in contact with me how we were before. She ignores most of my texts or social media messages. he tells me he would never do anything with her because she’s my friend and he wouldn’t do that to me. Which I don’t believe at all. She don’t even bother telling me he’s there hanging out. She’s all about social media so every time he’s around she makes sure to post videos while he’s talking and I’m guessing it’s so I can hear him but she never post any pictures or videos of him of course. he tells me he’s only been there twice this summer but I know for a fact he’s lying. my female intuition is so strong right now I’ve never had this feeling. So I know I don’t feel the way I do for no reason. I really believe something is going on between them. But every time I try to talk to my partner about it he denies everything. am I wrong for thinking there’s something going on?

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