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MissSaint21
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts20 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes11 Current upvotes11 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2021 Member sinceFebruary 24, 2021
Bio
I am a 21 year old female who enjoys playing games with my significant other on my PC and fishing with him as well.
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Living arrangements
Anxiety Support / by MissSaint21
Last post
 May 13th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone, so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now and we still live separately. Me with my parents, him with his grandma whom raised him. Now his grandma has poor health due to battling cancer. I understand completely the importance of taking care of her, I love her like my own grandmother and encourage him to take care of her. Recently I’ve been thinking about how I’m ready to move to the next half of our relationship by living together. We would be living right down the road from her and I encourage him to be there every day with her if need be all i ask is that we sleep in the same bed together at night. His worries is that she’ll fall and hurt herself and he won’t be there fast enough to help her, yet he still stays with me at my parents which is a bit further from her house versus where we would move. Is it selfish of me to just want to sleep with him in the same bed? That’s all I’m asking, he can be with her all day while I’m at work then come home at night. I feel like I can’t talk to him about it cause no matter what I say I feel selfish and greedy. Any advice?
Feeling un needed
Relationship Stress / by MissSaint21
Last post
 May 21st, 2021
...See more Hello everyone, so in the beginning of our relationship I begged my boyfriend to find at least on person to go to for emotional support besides me. I think it’s extremely important, especially for men to have a deep connection with another man for support in things I can’t always help him with or for if one day I’m not there he would have someone to open up to and wouldn’t shut himself off to the world again and go back to suppressing his feelings. Well now he has this wonderful friendship with a group of men he plays games with. A group of men he can be open with and share deep emotional connections with and now even though I know it’s selfish of me, I can’t help but to be jealous. I feel like he no longer needs me, I see how happy he is when he’s talking to his friends and I doubt that I make him that happy. He doesn’t do anything at all to make me feel this way, it’s just my bully of a brain making me feel like this. I understand it’s healthy and important to have friendships outside of a relationship but I can’t help but feel left out. Even though his friends are as much my friends as his I can’t help but feel like they’re only my friend because they support him. Mind you this is the first real relationship I’ve ever been in, I even gave him my virginity (Tmi I know) is this all normal like I’ve been told or have I gone mad?
Relationship Anxiety
Anxiety Support / by MissSaint21
Last post
 March 20th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone, I’m feeling anxious and stressed tonight. I’m having a hard time communicating my feeling with my significant other. I’ve been feeling stressed and anxious and to help me with that I recommend something I know will make me feel better. Spend the whole day together doing things we love and actually spending time face to face and then making love. The fact that I don’t want us to Play video games at all for just one day seems to be tearing him apart and it makes me think, am I asking too much? When I told him we’d be spending the day together he thinks I mean just fooling around in bed or playing video games because “what else would we do” as if we don’t spend most summer days fishing and being outdoors. Anyways I just wish he’d listen and try and understand where I’m coming from. I’ll never understand choosing video games over your partner..
Anxiety changes
Anxiety Support / by MissSaint21
Last post
 February 27th, 2021
...See more Does anyone have it to where the form of their anxiety changes? When I first developed anxiety I was terrified of sleeping since I thought I would die in my sleep. Now I’m anxious around the feeling of my own throat, I always think it’s closing when it’s not because I focus on it too much. I even focus on my breathing ok much to the point I constantly check my own oxygen with a pulse ox to feel better.
Seeking help
Anxiety Support / by MissSaint21
Last post
 February 26th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone I am new to the community and this app. I actually happened to hear about it through social media and I decided I would test the waters. I’m currently interested in seeing my family doctor and getting a therapist recommendation. Thankfully my parents are willing to help cover expenses sense they acknowledge the fact that they weren’t the best parents growing up and want to do everything they can to help me. I’ve decided to seek professional help because I’m tired of feeling like my feelings don’t matter. Any negative emotion I feel especially towards a loved one I practically tell myself that I’m overreacting and I don’t have a right to be upset over something this small. I’m in a new relationship and I constantly have to fight myself when it comes to sharing with him how I feel, especially if he’s done something to upset me. I never want to allow him to own up to his own wrong behavior, I’d rather take the blame. Anyways he’s the most kind, understanding and patient man I’ve ever met and fully supports my decision in seeking professional help.
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