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MarshmaIIows
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Number of ratings152 Number of reviews62 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, Cantonese, Chinese, Mandarin, Taiwanese Listener sinceDec 8, 2017 Last activeover 6 months ago PathStep 1,097 People helped205 Chats1,050 Group support chats634 Listener group chats635 Forum posts844 Forum upvotes1,647
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Adult-Teen Listener

^ mai twinsy, @bunnypants, leafies and i P: <3

B R I E F   I N T R O D U C T I O N

hi! i'm marshmallows, nice to meet you.
i've been through some stuff in life and here to hopefully help you through yours too by finding options for you to tackle ‘em ^-^’

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M Y   R O L E S

peer supporter | peer support buddy
social soldier (twitter) | safety patrol team
appreciation team | welcoming team
listener verifier team (message me about getting verified)
group mod | adult listener events team
doorkeeper (message me if you need rooms opened/closed)
translation project - translator and proofreader
anxiety support • self-harm recovery - support session leader
depression support - support session leader + project agent
addiction support - support session leader + forum team
around the world - project agent
motivation & self-help - forum team
pregnancy and parenting - discussion writer
got a question about these roles or projects? pm me!

S P E C I A L   T H A N K S

@pandalistens, pandle is a wonderful listener who is cute and very different from other listeners.

@mintleaf, an amazingly inspirational teenie! She's a great listener and so positive.

@hope & @asilentobserver, my amazingly tolerant mentors P:

Recent forum posts
Appreciation: Those Underrated Listeners
Positivity & Gratitude / by MarshmaIIows
Last post
May 7th, 2018
...See more Hey there - thanks for reading this post :P I wanted to talk about something today and also invite you guys to appreciate those underrated listeners. When I say Underrated Listeners, I'm not referring to those who only have 4 stars or 4.5 or whatever, that's not what I'm getting at. What I'm getting at are those people who stretch their timetables to fit in 7 cups, to take up projects and roles to give back to this wonderful community, those people who welcome, appreciate, lead discussions, moderate forums, mentor listeners, lead mentors, take up huge roles, balance their time, self-care, listen to people on 7 cups, and more. Those underrated listeners who don't get appreciated enough. You know these people from the top of your head - perhaps they're someone who has helped you write a forum discussion. Or perhaps you missed a discussion that you had to lead and the support team leader was understanding and helped you make amends and reschedule. Or perhaps your intern buddy reminded you to fill in the weekly evaluation form as you forgot last week's. Or, perhaps, you just completed a training and the person who lead the training was very helpful. Or maybe, someone appreciated and welcomed you today and it made your day. Or even, someone who's always helping people out in TL and LSR, or a moderator who always fixes things in the most resilient way. Whether it's someone matching any of the above criteria, you know that these people help the community in various ways and they're so, so underrated and need a pack on the back (and perhaps a smore or a cookie), so let's appreciate these underrated listeners, yeah? Let me start with a few! @Erato - For always having the answer to things, helping out with TL, answering questions about internship, answering questions from me about the mentor stuff D: xD <3 being wonderfully welcoming, supplying unlimited supply of pizza, always having something nice to say, helping out with many subcommunities and projects, being an amazingly resilient and funny, yet completely human wonderful girl :3 @Cherm - Being such a great DS Feed Team member, replying within 12 hours, always there to help and actively participate, being a hugely great role model in around the world subcommunity, being super active, reaching milestones, openly supporting members in group support and 1-1 chats, starting up and working on projects early on, taking the initiative to learn, and also reaching the milestone of AL1+2 passing really early on, hooray! @Hope - Always there to answer questions in LSR (and has the answer to like, everything :P), making the nickname 'Mashmy' for me xD, helping out with internship really actively, always giving me mentoring, reaching loads of milestones, being able to have an.. interest in business, watching out for me to make sure I don't burn out, and being really funny and professional at the same time. I encourage you to shoutout to people too!
Feedback & Reviews
goooooooooooood
a good person :)
Truly sweet, just like a marshmallow! This marshmallow is a better listener though :)
i like them, pretty solid so far
yet another relaxing chat, and I loved every second of it!
Marshmallows is really understanding. i thought i'd be too nervous to speak but she immediately made me feel welcomed.
A fantastic listener who actually wants to hear what you have to say. Truly caring, truly empathetic, and truly loving to anyone who talks. No problem is too big and bad, which is brilliant when talking about difficult things. A completely understanding, safe, and trustworthy listener.
Could not have asked for a better listener.
So kind!
Very understanding and kind!
Great
literally amazing. Response time was so good and they listened and made me feel better and didnt make me feel bad about my problems
Very good listener. I felt comfortable sharing my issues with this individual. I now feel much better about myself :)
Marshy is a great listener that truely made me feel heard and listened to, thank you for taking the time to chat with me even though your bio says on break! Means the world! ❤️
They were such an amazing listener, and I love their energy and willingness to help! It was definitely what I needed in that moment, so thank you so much!!
AMAZING!!!!!
Marshy is an amazing listener
Very thoughtful. Kind. Compassionate person.
10/10 perfection
Very understandable!!!!
Very helpful and caring and loving Quick response
Very helpful and caring and loving .
Very helpful and caring!! Compassionate!!
Phenomenal listener. Pays close attention to detail in what's being expressed and addresses the issue appropriately.
So good and helpful :)
Exactly what i needed in my time of need. Marshy was perfect. couldnt have asked for a better listener
good
This is the best seal+marshmallow - I meant listener! That I have ever spoken to. Seriously, Marshmallows, you've been my listener since like what... december? You've been such a huge help for me. I don't know where I would be without your support. When I first found you I was so broken and lost. I'm still broken at the moment but with you I feel like I'm slowly able to accept that it's okay to be broken and it's okay to ask for help. I'm so glad that I decided to request you to be my listener. The things you've done for me and told me was completely different to the things people say to me. You're really the best listener I've had. I like how you have set boundaries. It keeps me from feeling rejected and it's so very important for me. It also just makes our talks even more meaningful. You're the best listener ever, okay... Thank you so much for being here for me. If I could give you a hug and more marshmallows I would. I can't thank you enough for your compassion and care and love
An amazing and caring person
I was frustated when I started talking to him/her. But now I am happy. She/He is a big bubble of happiness who can distribute smiles all around. I am glad that I found him/her. If you haven't talked to him/her yet, you are missing out a very great person - I highly recommend her. If you are reading this to know if he/she is good, then do drop her a message as she/he is one of the people who gave me help in my stress-related chat. I know he's/she's one of those people who is very busy as he/she has many people to attend to. I only just noticed how much he/she talked about me instead of him/her self when I realised I didn't know what gender identity he/she is after writing this review lol.
Nice, friendly, cute, adorable and compassionate. And fluffy. And yummy and nice. Love marshmallows. Love him/her.
Where to begin. Mallows is wonderful in every way. S/he'll forgive you for your mistakes and still help you figure out how to make up for it and do better. S/he fills her every message with genuine care and can add a compliment to anything. S/he will never give up on you, and after you talk to him/er, you'll feel like you're sitting in a hammock on a beach, no matter what's going on in your life. Thank you, Marshmallows, for being so amazing!
There are no words to describe how helpful and amazing and empathetic Marshie has been. I truly appreciate the time that we spent together chatting and I simply cannot express my appreciation for the time she took out of her busy schedule to listen to me and be there for me. I really felt like I was able to open up to her and I don't open up to many people. I don't think I have ever opened up to anyone like I did with her and I want to thank you for that Marshie. I have so much respect for you and I cannot tell you how immensely proud I am to be involved with 7 cups. People like you make me smile and keep me happy and make my life so bright. Thank you for being so helpful, nice, affectionate, considerate, caring and compassionate. Thanks for being you and thank you for being so amazing.
This ended up being a tad bit longer than I wanted, but you're amazing.
probably best listener i've ever had..
The best
Great help! instant replies and understands my issues.
wise and lively and so helpful! she's the first person i talked to here who made me feel 10 times better. Bless her.
Marshmallows! How do I describe the experience of chatting with you? Let me start by saying that you're kind, patient and sweet. You seemed to completely understand every single thing I was going through, which no one has made me feel before.

After chatting with you, I realized that I don't have to wear a mask. I don't have to pretend to be fine. It was okay to NOT be fine, if that makes sense. It's alright to tell people, 'Yo. I feel differently.' It's okay to be different.

You told me about different things, your experiences, but only when asked. You reply in seconds and minutes, accepted my request, etc.

Thank you for giving me time, over an hour, to chat with you. You're positively the best listener I've ever encountered. I don't know how to describe how grateful I am for you, except that you've changed everything, my perception, view, perspective and thoughts.

Thank you.
Great, caring, easy to talk to. I feel like I have a friend that is capable of not judging a word I say.
She's really nice and supportive and talking to her really helped me calm down and pick myself up
Very empathetic and gives great insight
Great listener with a huge heart. An asset to this community.
spreading love is something that i love . thanks
five star each good listen and responded to everything
Thanks a lot
She is truly wonderful
Genuinely cares about your wellbeing and is very supportive. Understanding and open and quick to reply. This listener really is insightful and thoughtful and helps you to get to the root of the topic.
Goes above and beyond, she helped me find my therapist. :) very very very nice .
She was a great help. I came to her in a bit of a crisis after someone was being extremely inappropriate with me and she gave me the resources i needed. I'm thankful.
so nice and friendly
Great!
nice, friendly + helpful, good response time.
She's sweet and sensible she's like a sister
Best listener ever
Thanks for the time
Talks about her story only when asked, super empathetic and professional. Perfect English, responds in seconds/minutes, scheduled talks with me regularly.
Genuine, empathetic, checks on her members.
Very kind and supportive listener makes time to understand the situation
She took time and helped me a lot. Super friendly and nice
responds in seconds, super helpful and super kind
So nice, caring, and welcoming omg
Great response time, very empathetic and really nice. I look forward to talking to her more, she's so kind.
Great response time, super helpful to me
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