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Luna268
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Just need to vent
Relationship Stress / by Luna268
Last post
 August 2nd, 2022
...See more Hello, I need to vent and possibly see that someone is listening. As I do this too I feel selfish for wanting a reaction from someone, but not being able to talk to anyone I think is literally causing me problems. My boyfriend (of 17 years) and I have been having problems because of my attitude and lack of responsibility within our relationship. I have been selfish, I have been lazy, I don't take accountability for even small mistakes and I procrastinate. Since the last fight we had 2 yrs ago I have been better. But I was slipping into old behaviors and he couldn't take it again. We had another fight and now he is very distant. I love him and he has claimed to love me through all these years. But now he simply says things have changed and has become distant. Throughout the last few weeks it has been getting worse. It's almost like I only exist for the basic interactions and conversations in our day. I dont talk about my personal life with anyone. Not family or friends. I considered him to be my friend and partner. But now that we are going through this I'm shut. I feel like I'm holding my tears most of the day. I'm tired. I want to see him and be with him. But at the same time I don't because his change in attitude just hurts. I feel like I'm in pain and no one knows. No one reacts. And the one person to see it is annoyed by it. I understand he is really angry and I don't blame him. I understand my mistakes now. I just want to find ways to get through this and be strong so that I can have the wisdom to propose a solution and help him see that I don't want to hurt him anymore and I want us to be happy. Thank you for listening.
Staying organized
Anxiety Support / by Luna268
Last post
 December 25th, 2019
...See more Hi all. I have never been someone who is organized or who has much practice on planning and coordinating day to day events. Recently I have come to realize it is truly having a negative impact not knowing how to do these things. But now, I keep worrying about failing at being organized, at being able to plan and not forget important items or tasks. Although I am not really sure, it would seem that at times I am overconfident thinking that I "got it" when planning something important, then turns out I forgot something key. Other times, I lack the confidence and second guess myself and feel stuck, not knowing what's the next step on planning something in my daily life. It could be as simple as making it on time to an appointment... Or something more complex. I have tried using "to do lists" and planning some steps to make an event happen. However, these tools are not fail proof and am wondering if you could help me out by sharing with me ways to stay on track while planning and staying organized...and NOT FORGET THINGS. Everytime I fail and forget to consider something as part of a plan, I get very frustrated because it ends up affecting my day to day life a lot. Any tips on how to manage time, planning and staying organized, I imagine, might help me feel more in control and not feel so worried about failing. I want to be able to do this... But I can't seem to find the right tools for me. Thank you all for your help and happy holidays. Stay safe, all.
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