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Lostnlonely81
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Relationship Stress / by Lostnlonely81
Last post
 August 11th
...See more  I've had a bad feeling in my gut and decided to look through my boyfriends phone and found out he's been watching adult videos for hours while he's at work. It hurts my feelings and he knows I have a problem with it. How can I bring it up without him knowing I've been snooping.  I know he would not tell me the truth if I asked him about it.  
Am I Crazy???
Relationship Stress / by Lostnlonely81
Last post
 February 27th, 2023
...See more June 2020 - My fiance got a new job and one of his coworkers is an old high school acquaintance. He hid her from me for 3 months. I looked at our text records and found out, for those 3 months, they were texting daily....A LOT. I confronted him and he said he'd stop because I was uncomfortable with it. (The reason for the new job is because he got fired for sending *** to a coworker in the office. That affair was 5 months 🤦🏼‍♀️) September 2021 - we get into a fight and I brought her up again. He swore on his sons life that he wasn't texting/talking to her. February 2022 - I see his microsoft teams chat with her starting from the day in 2020 he told me he'd stop. I messaged her and he did too. He muted her on teams. Dec 2022 she was still muted. February 2023 - She is unmuted. I don't want to say anything. I want him to just tell me. These past 3 days have been pure torture for me. Am I acting crazy here??? Should I let it go or just keep making myself sick? I need help. I really don't know how to cope with this.
Lies and cheating
Relationship Stress / by Lostnlonely81
Last post
 September 30th, 2021
...See more I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and he's physically and emotionally has cheated on me several times through the years. I've recently hacked into some of his accounts and found out he messaged his ex last week. He denied it, even though I had the proof. I asked the ex and she just went on there and blocked him. I then found in his email he's been messaging a woman for the past 4yrs all kind of sexual messages. Nothing new since last year. I asked if he knew her and he said no, I asked if he knew her number and he said no. I saw the emails with my own eyes and he still denies it. I checked the phone logs and he they texted last year. How can I learn to trust him if he can't be honest about everything?
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