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Lomanee
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts19 Forum posts3 Forum upvotes9 Current upvotes9 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2023 Member sinceNovember 28, 2023
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Inside the mind of an Overthinker
Newbie Hub / by Lomanee
Last post
 December 1st, 2023
...See more Hey Everyone :) Newbie here! I started writing this yesterday but kept deleting it....mainly because I feel that I am rambling and not making sense. Let me try again..... How do we as overthinkers switch off??? Somedays I think being like this is a blessing because as you know, we have thought of every outcome in a situation and can prepare ourselves. Then comes the days where its an absolute curse!! yet again we are thinking of EVERYTHING!!! I am girl that struggles a lot with her weight..... when I'm happy, I eat. when I'm sad, I eat. Shoving food in my face seems to be the only way I can deal...... in all honesty it might be the only way to stop thinking even its only for that bit of time.  A few days back, I had a conversation with my fiance about changing our habits and it all went well until he said that he doesnt know what to do about me and he doesnt want to be nasty and tell me what he thinks about me at that moment....... well there you go...... switch has been flipped. Since then I struggle with everything. I cant concentrate at work. I cant play my online games. I struggle to read all my favorite books.... not even watching my dramas seem to quiet my mind. I feel sick. I have this constant pain in my stomach.  My mind is going through a million thoughts.... What is he thinking?..... am I that disgusting? ......Why cant I stop eating? over and over and over again..... I need to switch OFF!! 
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