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Lolaem
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How to know if you are sexually addicted or not ?
Addiction Support / by Lolaem
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 February 15th, 2021
...See more Sexual addiction : is a pattern of behaviour that has four components: 1. it feels out of control 2. it brings harmful consequences 3. it seems impossible to stop from 4 .it has a function. ( it anaesthetise a negative feeling state ) “The first three characteristics apply to all sexual behaviour , Good sex involve out of control , bad and good consequences , It is hard to stay stopped because sex is a fundamental human drive. “ “The big factor that lies behind sex addiction is that it is a learned way of escaping and avoiding negative feeling states , So sexual addiction is distinctive in that it is the use of sexual behaviour to anaesthetise a negative feeling state “
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Want Help ! Struggling with porn addiction
Addiction Support / by Lolaem
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 August 26th, 2020
...See more I struggle with porn and masturbate addiction for many years I tried alone to quit this addiction many times but I fail So I want someone to help me through my path of quitting this addiction As I find myself more committed to avoid those things when I know that I should tell someone that I do it I just want a listener to follow up with me once per week to tell him about my progress or failure Can anyone help me?
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