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LilacLeopard
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Number of ratings21 Number of reviews20 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 25, 2018 Last activeover 6 months ago PathStep 231 People helped68 Chats747 Group support chats262 Listener group chats225 Forum posts230 Forum upvotes589
Bio

⭐️Currently not accepting new member support chats, due to my roles on here. Thank you for understanding ⭐️

To my Long term members

~If you would like to book a chat with me that is still possible, just leave me a PM and we will find a time to chat🌸

Profile pic by the amazing @FrenchMarbles! 



About me⭐️

Hi my name is Lilac or Leopard and I have been a listener here since 2014 however on an old account! I am currently a psychology and counselling student and I enjoy and find fulfilment in supporting others. I will do my very best to support you with whatever you are going through and I am open to taking on casual chats if that is what you need at the time! I have been through much in life and I am hoping through my experiences I able to help others!

Topics I am well versed in⭐️

~ Depression

~Anxiety

~Self-harm

~Ptsd/Cptsd

~ Student life struggles

~ Chronic pain

~Bullying


Roles I have on here⭐️

~Quality mentor

~Safety patrol

~Anonymous Evaluator

~ Adult-teen listener

~ Chatroom supporter in P&G

~ DoorKeeper

~Listener Chatroom Supporter




Things I can help with as a  quality and academy mentor⭐️

~ Provide mock chats and help improve and build your active listening skills

~ Verify mentees/listeners 

~Provide helpful links or links you are looking for from the forums

~ Answer questions you have about the platform 



Thanks for reading 💜







Recent forum posts
Get to know our very own delightful @Tinywhisper11🤩💜
Community Projects & Events / by LilacLeopard
Last post
August 28th, 2023
...See more Interviewee: @Tinywhisper11 Interviewer: @Fristo Hey hey everyone🌸 Ready to get to know the delightfully wonderful Tiny? Let's goooooo😎 1) What all good things do you see in your life today?💜 Tiny: I am free. I'm surrounded by great people I see the good in people now, and I'm learning to live in this awesome world I never knew existed. I can paint pictures, learn, communicate with people and live a happy life. And now thanks to 7 cups I have friends 🤗 2) What would you say to someone feeling sad?💚 Tiny: It's ok to be sad sometimes ❤ I guess sometimes all we need is a little ‘pick me up.. I'm little!’ *Picks you up* Look now you’re happy again yaaaay! But seriously if you ever need to talk or just cry I'll be here to listen ❤❤ There are lots of people who love and care about you. 3) What can someone do for you to lift your spirit up?💙 Tiny: I don't look normal anymore. Life hasn't been easy, and it's left me with physical challenges. I have no family and I lack confidence and communication skills. So please be kind with your words. All I want is to be accepted by people to fit in. That's all I need and want. Oh, and if you give me ice cream I will smile forever. ------------------------- I agree with you Tiny, everyone deserves to feel accepted, loved and appreciated and guess what? Someone really served it on time for you! Our very kind @Chetan would like to appreciate you and left this super sweet message for you💖 Sheep is always been cute. Whenever she comes to room, the room become full of joy. Her sense of humor is out of this world. Really innovative. I love her way of thinking. Sometimes I can't even expect the thinking level that she reaches out. Lol. I always wanted her to be on cups. They are like the gems on cups. No doubt she was perfect, is perfect and will be perfect. At last sheep, never get changed. I love you how you are. *hugs lola*. :) Thank you Chetan for your beautiful words of appreciation🌹 ------------------------- 4) Any advice for human beings?💛 Tiny: Remember our words and actions can make or destroy a life so think before you do. And spread love and kindness to all. We can all change the world for the better by just doing one good deed a day. 5) How do you live meaningfully?❤️ Tiny: I came from nothing, I had nothing, I was nothing, but I've been given a new chance at life. So I promise I try really hard to wake up every day with a thankful smile on my face. And love In my heart ❤ I will honour my son's memory and try to better myself every day. I am being the best me I can be. Thank you so much for your beautiful and honest responses Tiny! I loved reading through and getting to know you💛 Thank you Fristo for your time asking these wonderful questions and helping us get to know Tiny❤️ ------------------------- This interview is part of the Living with Leaders Interview Series. Want to engage too? Give or take an interview here: https://tinyurl.com/LivingwithLeaders 💕 Thank you for reading everyone!💖
Get to know our forum star @Sunisshiningandsoareyou!!
Community Projects & Events / by LilacLeopard
Last post
February 17th, 2023
...See more Interviewee: @Sunisshiningandsoareyou Interviewer: @yourbuddy30 Buddy: Which is your favourite role at 7 cups and why?☀️ Sun: Oof that’s a difficult question. I really don't have a favorite, I think hehe, I love all the roles I currently serve, some I enjoy a bit more as compared to others so that would probably be being a forum supporter and a peer supporter: Two lol. I love supporting and interacting in the forums, forums are more "self-paced" I feel, and I try my best to make more people feel heard, seen, acknowledged and supported, at my pace. Peer support, I really enjoy supporting my fellow listeners via all the roles I have and otherwise too, be it through mock chats, sharing resources, guiding or assisting with something etc. I chose peer support here because I feel, often a listener may feel alone and find themself struggling to cope after a chat or some mild site related issue~ the worst case scenario, they may consider dropping a role, or leaving the site altogether. I believe it's on everyone here to ensure this place remains supportive, compassionate, inclusive for all, be assured that they aren't alone, and that they do matter, what they do makes a difference still. A lot of times a few kind words and support in those low moments has helped in retaining many amazing listeners, without whom, this site won't be the same. Buddy: I have always seen you replying to most of the threads being posted and it is highly appreciable. How do you manage to do that?🌞 Sun: Lol I love forum-based questions hehe, they most definitely are my favorite place in 7 cups (minus the unhelpful updates, glitches and bugs lol), there's just so much happening in there, and I simply try my best in ensuring more people feel heard and supported, as I mentioned in the above question. How do I manage? Mhm, I'm unsure too, I just maybe spend too much time in forums haha. There's always "one more forum post" and sometimes I can't help but hop over and reply and enjoy it too. It simply feels gratifying to know I could make someone feel acknowledged and supported. Buddy: Who is your role model and why? (here or outside cups or both)🌝 Sun: I am sometimes a little weary of this question honestly, because I understand how it would seem to some people kinda like "how come you don't have any role model" but it's true for me, in a way that, I don't have a specific "name" or person that I want to be like or admire (going by what "role model" means). I feel I'm surrounded with so many amazing people, specially in 7 cups, I find at least one person here with every *positive* adjective in the dictionary and then there's different ways of presenting that. Person A and Person B are both kind and they cannot be compared, but they have different ways of *being* kind or expressing their kindness, and for me that's a tug of war lol, I want to be like Person A and Person B and they both become my role models for #1 Being kind and #2 Being kind in their own *unique* way. So it's more about "what qualities I look for in the kind of person I want to be". To sum, everyone I come across who inspires me, intrigues me, impresses me in some way, is my role model. And I try to continually better myself with that inspiration and aspiration to look up to. I'd like to give a special shout out to someone I do really admire off cups though, they aren't around anymore, but I feel proud to be related with them, who were and still are often described as the life of any room, or the one that gave and kept giving without keeping a count, on many days, that's who I aspire to be also! <3 Buddy: You make the environment so friendly and fun. What motivates you to do that and be there for everyone here at cups?🌻 Sun: That's honestly very sweet of you to say hehe, I'm really glad I'm able to create such an environment. I do feel it's not a one person's task though, so you best believe that it's again a team effort, somehow I strongly feel that y'all here bring my best version out, and I'm immensely grateful to share this loving, supportive, compassionate space with y'all. So I believe, the answer to the question is that, *you* the one reading this, part of my tribe, are my motivation and I'm a better person because of you. Thank*youu* for it! Buddy: What made you want to become a listener here?🌼 Sun: Great question hehe, I too enjoy hearing everyone's story on what really brought them here. For me, it was the mere thought of "saving a life" that brought me here, I just wanted to do something to save a life, 7 cups even though isn't a crisis support platform, *has* saved many lives. I feel, it's the little steps that matter, that count, that lead us somewhere. I'm grateful to accompany some people in their little steps as they walk towards healing, towards becoming better, towards growing as human! And simply to sum, to be a "someone" for people who have no one, to remind them that they matter too, and are a worthy existence and life, no matter how their current life looks like. Thank you so much for your wonderful and well detailed answers Sun! I loved reading through and getting to know you💛 Thank you Buddy for your time asking these wonderful questions and helping us get to know Sun❤️ ------------------------- This interview is part of the Living with Leaders Interview Series. Want to engage too? Give or take an interview here: https://tinyurl.com/LivingwithLeaders 🌝 Thank you for reading everyone!💖
Feedback & Reviews
Aishaa is an excellent listener; from the bottom of my heart, thank you for sitting down with me and processing everything. You made me feel listened to and validated. I feel like the room has gotten lighter talking to you. Our talk has significantly impacted me, and I appreciate what you said. I'm glad you're a listener here at 7Cups.
makes me feel really comfy and is a good listener :) would recommend
So caring a listener. Bless her heart!
Willing to listen, very helpful
I liked it, helpful chat
amazing listener
Was nice enough to stay with me for a long period of time. Paraphrased what I said and asked the right questions so we could delve deeper in to my issue. Congrats!
Really calmed me down and got me out of my head. Definitely requesting in the future.
I felt understood and supported, this listener puts so much effort into understanding and validating, is very kind and compassionate.
thank you for listening, she was really understanding
Really helpful and supportive! :)
She made me feel really happy
just good at listening and trying to help
She is a really helpful listener, she is insightful and brings you useful sources to feel better, she is patient and respectful. Thank you so much for your time! 🌸🌸😇
She was helpful. She listened. I felt like she understood me.
She is an amazing listener! She gives wonderful insights and communicates sympathetically! Highly recommended!
She communicates in a helpful way
Very easy to talk to compassionate
lovely person to speak with very refreshing company
Extremely helpful and understanding, provided me with helpful tools to deal with my problems and validated my feelings and helped me identify underlying issues in regards to the problem
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