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...See more So, this is happening in Singapore. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me last tuesday on the 12th... our 2-month anniversary. His parents were pestering him to break up with me every night since they found out I was on antidepressants. They believed that I had to take it for life and there was a high chance of me relapsing. My ex protested but he eventually gave in. He took back what he said before we got together that he didn't mind my depression, but now he does for 2 reasons: I might relapse in 10 years down the road, and my dysfunctional family can never be changed. He's looking past the fact that I'm a lot better and happy now, and that I am going to complete my university degree. When I asked if there was anything I could say or do to make him stay, he said that there wasn't and the only time we can be together is in the future when his parents kick the bucket :( which means never. He wanted us to stay friends immediately, and I tried to tell him I needed space... but I blew up at him that he was hurting me when he was trying to tell me to continue our daily texts. After that, he said there was a sudden void in his heart, and talking with me only filled half of it. A really helpful listener Duff26 told me my reaction to it was like picking at a scab of a wound, not letting myself heal. I'm really thankful for hearing that. Scab-picking is a problem of mine...

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