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Kindlettering
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PathStep 76 Compassion hearts137 Forum posts28 Forum upvotes50 Current upvotes50 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2024 Member sinceOctober 6, 2022
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I love art, travelling, mountain, beach, cute animals, self-help books, Mitch Albom's books, Paulo Coelho's books.

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Anyone love calligraphy lettering ?
Hobby Zone / by Kindlettering
Last post
 January 29th
...See more For me to therapeutic
Your favorite nature
Around the World / by Kindlettering
Last post
 November 14th, 2022
...See more Mine would be mountains
May I know how or when did you find out you need to go and check up for these diagnosis?
Bipolar, Schizophrenia & Psychosis Support / by Kindlettering
Last post
 November 5th, 2022
...See more When me and my brother fight, he yelled at me angrily and told me I might got mild schizophrenia and he told me why do I kept on thinking & believing people are gonna do me harm. It’s just that lately I haven’t been able to trust people like I used to, and my family blames me for many things, and treat me like I am an embarrassment for the family. I don’t wanna self-diagnose but I currently feel confused and I kept on asking myself the same question.
Anxious because of how people keep talking about recession
Anxiety Support / by Kindlettering
Last post
 November 5th, 2022
...See more And there r probably gonna be more layoffs
Overwhelmed
Anxiety Support / by Kindlettering
Last post
 November 4th, 2022
...See more Woke not feeling like waking up, don't have the energy to work out. My new job (1 month+) is giving me lots of assignments and I don't have the confidence to be able to do it.
Breakup, different family economic status, and me kept trying to change him to be better
Relationship Stress / by Kindlettering
Last post
 October 24th, 2022
...See more Just broke up with a pretty strange reasons: * since the start of the relationship 20 months ago, my parents didn’t approve since his small family economic is not so good. * I can’t be open to my parents about his parents are about to get a divorce. My parents and their families are very conservative Asian. * I kept on pushing him to be better; learning how to drive a car, be a better communicator, be more talkative during family or friends meetup, yes I reflected that I am so controlling and I kept on wanting to change him so he could meet my family & friends standard. * I appreciate him with his strange hobby that I don’t understand but I am not supporting him like I should’ve been. He tried to identify himself with his hobby on his social media, where there’s this stigma towards his strange hobby and I feel embarrassed of it, so I told him to separate his hobby and personal life so people wouldn’t misunderstand. i’ve been raised as a people pleaser all my life and my parents been controlling me like crazy too. I am 27 this year yet they still treat me like I am a teenager, 8pm curfey etc, they won’t even let me get out of the house. Sometimes I am calm most of the time, but sometimes I kept on complaining to my ex so he can meet my family standard. thats why we finally chose to breakup, in a very mature manner, we talked, then we played the we are not really strangers card game once more, made me cry since he’s the one understanding me through these last 2 years, no one else does. anyone knows how to deal with this in a healthier way? I think I’m the the depression phase of breakup. and ofc for my ex too, i want him to be happy too for i still care for him and he’s a very kind & gentle human.
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