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Number of ratings45 Number of reviews39 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Swahili Listener sinceSep 23, 2018 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 886 People helped244 Chats1,326 Group support chats36 Listener group chats169 Forum posts549 Forum upvotes596
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''Every saint has a PAST and every sinner has a FUTURE

If you are feeling broken, know that I have been there before and it is harder being there alone. I am here for you. I have tried and failed more than once but I have also tried and succeeded more than once.

There are those problems that we cannot share with our loved ones. This is because of the fear that they may judge you 😏 or worse laugh at you 😂. You can always be free with me. I am a  listener who does not judge.👂 I have faced a number of hardships and sharing them has given me the ENERGY to overcome them. You can tell me anything. I believe that a problem shared is a problem half solved.

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''No matter the pain we endure, it must come a time when we must pick ourselves up and continue with our journey.
SO
YOU CAN GO ON BEING LONELY AND 
MISSING WHAT YOU
HAD,
OR
YOU CAN MOVE ON
TO SOMETHING
NEW 
AND 
WONDERFUL

WHAT'S NEW AND EXCITING?
1. HAPPINESS 
“You can't wait until life isn't hard anymore, before you decide to be happy.”
-Nightbirde-
2. POSITIVITY
"Pessimistic people live miserable lives."
TROLLS (2016)
Branch: You don't know anything, Poppy. And I can't wait to see the look on your face when you realize the world isn't all cupcakes and rainbows. 'Cause it isn't. Bad things happen, and there's nothing you can do about it.

Poppy: Hey, I know it's NOT all cupcakes and rainbows but I'd rather go through life thinking that it MOSTLY is instead of being like YOU. You don't sing, you don't dance... So gray all the time.

3. LOVE

“A life lived in love will never be dull."

FROZEN (2013)

"Only an act of Love can thaw a Frozen heart."

4. COUNTING YOUR BLESSINGS 

"When everything is going all wrong, it is probably wise to count your blessings. Make lists of all the things that you should be happy about. Think of all those good things. Focus on them."
INSIDE OUT (2015)

Joy: Look, I get it. You guys have concerns. But we've been through worse! Tell you what: let's make a list of all the things Riley should be HAPPY about!
Anger: Fine. Let's see... this house stinks, our room stinks...
Disgust: Pizza is weird here...
Sadness: Our friends are back home...
Fear: And all of our stuff is in the missing van!
Joy: Oh c'mon, it could be worse...
Disgust: Yeah, Joy. We could be lying on the dirty floor. In a bag.
Joy: Okay, I admit it, we had a rough start. But think of all the good things...

It's important that everyone knows, (you are) so much more than all the bad things that (have) happened to (you).

-NIGHTBIRDE-

Recent forum posts
WHAT DO YOU PICTURE WHEN YOU WANT TO OPEN UP TO A PERSON?
Mindfulness Center / by JoyHappyNess
Last post
 August 28th, 2019
...See more People picture different images when they need to open up. I, for instance, like to imagine a blooming flower. Others picture a box being opened, a man with open arms waiting to comfort you, wind ready to blow their problems away and so on. Since 7 cups is a platform for sharing and just letting go of your problems, I would like to know what you picture when you want to open up to a person.
I AM ANXIOUS BECAUSE THIS EXPERIENCE IS NEW TO ME
Anxiety Support / by JoyHappyNess
Last post
 August 10th, 2019
...See more I have just noticed that most of my content have the word 'new' in them. Is it that that three letter word scares the living breath out of me? Of course yes! When I mess up or anything, I tend to love a 'new' beginning and everything of the sort but when my everything is just normal, thank you God but please! No new things. Why? Because the new thing will perhaps drag with it sorrow and pain. I thought that I will have all this holiday to myself, watch movies, eat popcorns, chat, make memes, visit family and all of those stuff. I had great plans. Those were great plans. Until a bad experience creeped up on me and scared me to death. Talk of being a walking corpse for a while. Then boom! I was forced to look for a job and start working. Life should really go slow on surprises. This is the D day. I have to go for my first interview. I am happy, without say but I am also anxious, scared and the countless butterflies in my stomach are not making it better. Grrrr! Grrrr! My stomach keeps complaining but I ate a heavy breakfast, you greedy sac! Everyone turns their eyes on me and I am like, 'Thank you stomach for embarrassing me again. I thought we are all in this together.' I peruse my mind for encouragement and the words of a friend are the first ones to register. "You can learn new skills there, and a job opens up opportunities." I am like 'I can do this'. As we speak, I am still in 'I can do this'. WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY IS, EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. YOU CAN DO THIS OR THAT. DON'T BE A PESSIMIST. BE AN OPTIMIST OR AN OPPORTUNIST.
Introduction
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by JoyHappyNess
Last post
 October 17th, 2018
...See more Hey everyone! I am JoyHappyNess and I am very glad to Join this community.😂 I am looking forward to having a great time with you all.😊
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