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Hey there! I'm Jack, I'm 20 years old and I care about you. Before you read any further I just want you to know that I understand you're in a dark place right now and I know that I can't stop it raining, but I can walk with you for as long as it takes. I am willing to help with any issue you may be suffering and I hope that things will improve for you. You're enough as you are; don't let anyone ever tell you anything different, I believe in you. I enjoy reading and poetry, as well as listening to music. I'm a verified listener here at 7 Cups of Tea and I hope that you'll find comfort and hope in sharing your problems with a kind, compassionate friend here at 7 Cups of Tea. Never give up, I'm here for you!



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"For a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come completely undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To someone who doesn't understand growth, it would look like complete destruction."



"This is not your legacy. This is not your meant to be, I can break the chains that bind you."



You'll always believe you're broken, if you always allows people's opinions to tell you what needs to be fixed -- My words to live by.



I believe in Murphy's law. Anything that can go wrong.. will go wrong. However I also believe in anomalies, anything that goes wrong will get better



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Listener Twin



My wonderful twin is: 



@Rebecca



She is the most caring person I have ever met and she is just honestly incredible.



She is a great friend and an incredible listener. I am very thankful and honored to know her. 



 



My Superhero Twin is @Cadence



She is absolutely amazing. She has reminded me that superheroes still exist in the real world and what the worth of a smile is. 



I am so thankful I met her, she is nothing but absolutely perfect.



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P.P.S Shout out to @me



 



 



 


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PoeticPuzzle/Baubs 1 Year at 7 Cups of Tea
Positivity & Gratitude / by Jack
Last post
August 2nd, 2015
...See more Hello everyone, I'm Baubs (PoeticPuzzle to the oldies among you). Today marks one whole year here at 7 cups of tea - I can't believe it has been this long! I have to say though, I'm so happy that I made the decision to help on this site. In my time here at 7 cups of tea so far, I have accomplished so much and helped the site along in many aspects, especially with regards to moderating and group chats (Or at least I think so). It has been amazing meeting all of these incredible people along the way in my journey across this year and I'm absolutely astonished about the kind words I have received from those I have spoken too as well, both listeners and members/guests. I definitely think this year in 7 cups of tea has changed me in a good way, as a person. It has taught me some valuable life lessons and improved my understanding of some topics that I previously, had no knowledge about.  I mostly just want to say a big thank you to everyone who has welcomed me into this community and allowed me to be a part of this amazing place, where I have been able to help so many people. Combining all my efforts on site, and externally in this past year I have helped over 500 people recover from their troubles and problems, which is just mind blowing to me, but I personally want to thank all of them for allowing me to be a part of their story.  Just a BIG thanks you to everyone here for supporting me as a listener and being there for me when I need help too, I'm so happy to have met everyone that I have, keep being awesome!  - Baubs  @ZaraSmiles @Resisti @Lynnie @OrunLeon @Niko @RebeccaEmily @Fairy @Sarah @Noasu @Jake @Emma @allTheLove @scarlet25 @mobbsy @Ace13 @izza @samc95xc @AkankshaP @FlowerInDisguise19 @Sparkleofhope
Anxiety Disorders
Anxiety Support / by Jack
Last post
June 5th, 2015
...See more Disclaimer: These are my own opinion and views. They may not reflect those of the medical profession or 7 Cups of Tea as a site. I understand these experiences of mental illness will vary per person and this is simply my own opinion and experiences. This is not to be used for diagnosis, only for education, support and insight into the illness. I am fully aware that all forms of anxiety may display similar symptoms and may be described in similar ways, I’m simply going to attempt to explain how it feels to have them and how they differentiate.   Types of Anxiety: 1) Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) 2) Panic Disorder (PD) 3) Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) 4) Phobia 5) Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) 6) Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) I’m going to be writing about each of these in turn, giving my best possible description of each as well as symptoms. I have not experienced all of these forms of anxiety by any means, however for 9 years I have had; GAD, OCD and SAD so I will try to add my own opinion and experiences in those specifically. Generalized Anxiety Disorder GAD is the most common form of an anxiety disorder. This form of anxiety is a constant form of anxiety that affects day to day activities, hobbies and lifestyle. Symptoms include, but are not limited to: 1) Excessive worry about everyday issues 2) Difficulty getting rid of these concerns 3) Recognition that worries are out of proportion to the situation 4) Physical symptoms like fatigue, headaches, muscle aches, irritability, nausea, and lightheadedness 5) Generally lacking confidence This is an anxiety disorder I have had for such a long time and it can cause a lot of issues, especially with being able to function daily. You always seem to feel nearing unable to cope and as a result of all the anxiety you can struggle to sleep which results in extreme tiredness, you’re likely to be very restless and irritable, you may also get muscle tension as well as major concentration problems.   It’s a very hard condition to live with simply because, it’s daily. There are no “on and off” times, it’s a constant state of being in which you’re always anxious about everything, even things that to most people would seem insignificant and it’s hard for people to understand that, in my experience most people try to be supportive but after four or five times, they tend to get annoyed that you’re being “so silly”, but it’s simply not that easy to stop being anxious. If anyone reading this does suffer from GAD, I’m awfully sorry to hear that and I hope you reach out for help and support, we’re always here for you! Panic Disorders I have not experienced a Panic Disorder personally and I am aware most anxiety disorders contain panic attacks, however from my understanding this is much worse than the odd panic attack, speaking from the perspective of everyone I’ve met with a PD. Sufferers of PD are in a constant suffering, from ongoing and quite frequent panic attacks, as well as a complete and total fear of the next attack happening. These attacks usually last for 15-30 minutes and do not usually have any obvious trigger or cause. It’s severely hard for people with a PD because it’s near impossible to tell when the next attack will occur and sometimes even the memory of a previous attack can trigger another panic attack.   Symptoms include, but are not limited to: 1) Chest pain or a pounding heartbeat 2) Feelings of dread 3) Problems breathing 4) Dizziness 5) Excessive sweating 6) Nausea 7) Shakiness 8) Fear of impending death or lack of control I’m not fully aware of the personal experience of suffering a PD however I am aware that it’s a very serious condition, that can be extremely overwhelming to anyone suffering from a PD as the fear of it happening is always there, which can then lead to an attack actually happening, resulting in further fear. It’s an extremely vicious cycle and I can only hope that anyone suffering with a PD, will reach out for the appropriate help, I understand it’s extremely hard but it’s so worth it. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder OCD is an awful condition to be living with, in many aspects it takes over a section of your life and it can be extremely stressful to the individual affected as other people can be very judgmental to the “abnormal” habits they display, or at least that’s what I’ve found in my experience of it. Symptoms include, but are not limited to: 1) Fear of ‘contamination’ after touching things and/or people 2) Concerns over ‘trivial matters’ such as locking the door repeatedly, checking the stove a lot or turning lights on/off multiple times 3) An intense desire and need to ensure things are lined up properly or facing the ‘right’ way 4) Frequent hand washing 5) Frequent hair pulling, sometimes leading to hair loss 6) Counting steps to ensure the ‘right’ amount of steps is taken from location to location OCD is a terrible affliction to suffer as it interferes with all aspects of life and activities, in which people want to stop the behaviours but simply can’t do it. Personally speaking, I have found it can cause insane amount of troubles, such as repeatedly turning a light on or off for a few hundred times before it felt ‘right’. I know some people say “Oh I’m OCD” whenever they simply move a pen around but that’s not the case, it’s an awful affliction in which it feels physically wrong for things to not be ‘right’, it irritates you beyond belief if even small things are out of place or if things just don’t “feel” right. It’s so much more than the small things, it’s a constant issue which impacts your ability to adequately function in day-to-day life, which can lead into a panic attack in extreme circumstances. Phobia Phobias are quite common and it’s important to note, although similar, a fear and a phobia are vastly different in terms of how it affects a person. A phobia is, indeed, an acute fear, but the difference between a fear and a phobia is not just the acuteness of it; it is also that a phobia is blown out of proportion in the person's mind to the extent that it can become paralyzing, but at the very least, it is an unreasonably intense fear. Symptoms can include, but are not limited to: 1) Intense fear and/or dread 2) Knowledge these fears are irrational and aren’t associated with actual danger 3) Automatic reactions that can consume the person’s thoughts 4) Going extremely out of the way to avoid situations that may involve any form of fear 5) Physical reactions, such as a fast heartbeat, urge to flee or shortness of breath There are phobias that can be caused by just about anything, and it’s important to note that you should try to support people suffering with a Phobia. It may seem simple and easy to some of us, but to the person suffering, whatever their phobia is, it’s going to see extremely overwhelming, painful and might cause extreme panic. Try to remain supportive and look out for those suffering to keep their discomfort to a minimum. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder PTSD is a horrible condition to have to fight on a daily basis. Most of us at some point in our lives will have experienced some form of traumatic event or experience, which is obviously extremely horrific to go through and can be very upsetting for you at the time. With PTSD, they constantly relive those horrific experiences in a way that feels very real, frightening and can invoke physical reactions when they do remember the event, just try to imagine how it would feel, reliving that horrific moment time and time again, it would be really hard! That’s what PTSD sort of feels like, I can’t describe it too well having never experienced it but that’s my general understanding. The symptoms include, but are not limited to: 1) Reliving the event. These symptoms include having flashbacks, nightmares, and memories of the event that upset you. You may also have intense feelings, often with physical reactions, when remembering the event. 2) Avoidance. You avoid places, situations, people, or anything that might remind you of the event. You start to forget important details of the trauma. Another symptom is that you start separating yourself from your friends and family and you stop caring about anything. 3) Increased emotional arousal and anxiety. This group of symptoms contains issues like sleep problems, lack of concentration, and frequent angry outbursts. You may also feel like you are on alert and tense all of the time. Try to understand, for the person affected, this is like reliving the event that occurred. It’s very real and very traumatizing to the person affected. Social Anxiety Disorder Most people naturally feel a bit anxious going into a new social setting or environment however SAD is extreme fear of being judged or viewed negatively by others which prevents you from engaging socially, at all in a lot of circumstances. It’s very difficult for people with this anxiety disorder to be able to cope, even just a little bit, with social settings and it can feel extremely overwhelming for them, even in small scale situations. Symptoms include, but are not limited to: 1) Extreme discomfort in social situations 2) Extreme effort to avoid social situations 3) Extreme fear of being judged by other people 4) Physical symptoms including; Rapid heartbeat, blushing, sweating and muscle tension Having experienced this one personally, it’s horrible. It takes away often, the ability to be able to communicate and socialise with people in most circumstances and can prevent the person doing things that they love doing or really want to try/do. It can cause intense loneliness, if the person is unable to socialize properly which can lead to further negative self-opinion, which only fuels the anxiety further. It’s a horrible cycle to be trapped in, it’s not just being a bit afraid at the new social situation. What can be done? Okay, hopefully all of that made sense! Hopefully now you can see the difference between being anxious and an anxiety disorder, they differ vastly and anxiety has much more dire and severe consequences  than just being a bit anxious every now and then. The good news is that there are therapy and treatments available to help those suffering with any of the above anxiety disorders, you’re not alone in this struggle and you can and you will get through this. So, how can we support those struggling with anxiety? Try to be supportive. Don’t tell them to ‘get over it’ or that ‘just try’, because that won’t help them. They come here to vent and to be listener too, so do just that - listen. Try to understand how it feels for them to be feeling that way, support them and encourage them. Additionally, professional help can really help. Most patients find significant relief from their symptoms after treatment begins. There’s always hope no matter how hard things feel right now, please stay strong. Treatment Options Some treatment options available include, but are not limited to: 1) Cognitive Therapy - This therapy focuses on changing patterns and beliefs that are associated with, and triggering, anxiety. 2) Behavior Therapy - This therapy largely involves gradual exposure to that anxiety/fear triggering events in small steps that you can handle, which ultimately desensitizes you from the issue(s) making it easier to handle. 3) Medication - There is medication available if a doctor has diagnosed the anxiety disorder, which can help in the short-term while you look into other treatments 4) Other - Things such as breathing techniques and relaxation methods are also known to help with anxiety related issues, you can find a list of these online or from a doctor I’m always here if you need to talk to someone, lots of care - Baubs @EtaAlpha Thanks for the support and proof reading, I appreciate you and everything you did to help! (Especially with editing)
Depression: Life Ruining or Life Changing?
Depression Support / by Jack
Last post
August 29th, 2016
...See more Disclaimer: This is my own opinion and views. They may not reflect that of the medical profession or 7 cups of tea as a site. I understand these experiences of mental illness will vary per person and this is simply my own opinion and experiences. Hello everyone. Im Jack. This is simply going to be me writing about my experiences of mental illness, specifically Depression as a lot of people struggle to understand this illness and hopefully by reading this, you will gain some form of new understanding to help you support those suffering with this illness; so without any further interruptions lets get started. I am currently 18 years old, and have had this illness for a very long period of time, that grew gradually worse as I grew older for various reasons that I wont go into; however in total Ive had this illness for about 10 or 11 years and it has been a big learning streak for me, trying to understand them, myself and how it actually feels. Im going to talk about depression, its a very serious and sadly, all too often misunderstood, illness which I believe to be one of the most lethal illnesses in the world, in terms of what it can do to a person. Explaining depression can be a very hard thing to do, especially in a way that people can understand however Im going to attempt to: I want you to imagine you have lost the ability to feel anything pleasurable, anything at all. Food will have lost its taste, a warm bed will have lost its comfort, conversation will have lost its meaning and you wont feel a connection to other people. Imagine youre in a severe fog, you cant even see two steps in front of you, you dont know where you are and youre feeling really lost. You stop seeing beauty in things, colors become dull and gray and you keep tripping over absolutely nothing at all. Youre also going to be feeling physically sick, extremely tired for no reason, a bit numb inside and extremely hollow or empty especially inside your chest. Now youve also lost the ability to sleep, and even if you do you wont stay asleep; so youre just absolutely miserable. Thats the sort of symptoms and feelings it can cause, especially for myself. Now most people would say, Well that sounds bad, but I could probably get through it. Absolutely right, most people can take a severe amount of pain - provided they know it will stop. Such as, if you ever had the flu, it felt horrible but you hung on in there because you knew it would stop. Now imagine everything I said, has gone on for 2-3 weeks, how would you feel? Probably like, Well, 2-3 weeks is hard but I mean, a lifetime is a lifetime, right?. Again I agree, rough but itll pass. Now imagine it has been 2-3 months of this unrelenting set of feelings inside of yourself, no break from it at all. How would you feel? Now imagine it has gone on for 2-3 years, with no sign of it improving at all, still unrelenting and vicious. How would you feel about recovering? How it actually feels, especially in my case, is that it becomes hopeless. It hurts to be awake, it physically hurts to breathe, move, even just to exist so you end up saying I dont know how much longer I can handle this, I need the pain to stop. Everything is just uncomfortable and you feel like youre burning inside and nothing makes sense to you and you just cant concentrate as well as a constant feeling of being alone, because nobody, that youre aware of, understands you. This is a really hard concept to try and explain because, without going through it, its very hard to understand this illness. Even to those who have gone through it, it can be very hard to understand how and why they feel this way. The reason its such a hard illness besides all of that, is that you lose the desire, or rather, capability to recover. The only way I can think to explain it, is that your perception collapses and you become incapable of ever seeing the situation improving, for example; If you have ever been in a car in busy traffic and someone speeds past you and undercuts you and almost causes a collision, for that small moment, your perception collapses and all you focus on is that one car speeding off, and maybe all you think about is what almost happened - however eventually your perception would return to normal, you probably would have even forgotten about it. However with depression, the perception stays collapsed, in that cold and dark place, you physically cant see an end in sight. Commonly with this illness, depressed people end up saying, I wish I wasnt alive. Because of these kind of remarks, people struggle to know how to properly support those suffering with depression; however, when a depressed person says they dont want to be alive - they arent saying they want to die, theyre simply saying, I wish I was away somewhere, that this pain would stop, where I dont have to exist for a while. There is a very large difference between those two. Dont be discouraged if a depressed person says something like that, its their way of saying I need help. So how can you help someone in such an unrelenting, desperate situation that they see literally no end too? Well this is the tough part because you have to be willing to accept that theyre going to get angry and deny you helping, because they dont want to burden you - they push you away so they dont get hurt any further. However, ultimately they just need to know its okay, that someone understands, that there is still hope. I cant speak on behalf of every depressed person ever, however I can say that personally there are a lot of things that I wish people had told me, or things that I have found that I wish people had quoted to me, such as: To quote Matt Haig, You are on another planet. No-one understands what you are going through. But actually, they do. You dont think they do because the only reference point is yourself. You have never felt this way before, and the shock of the descent is traumatising you, but others have been here. You are in a dark, dark land with a population of millions. To quote Myself: Its going to be alright in the end, if its not then its not the end. I know that its really hard for you right now, but things can and they will improve, we need the lows to appreciate the high points of life. I know that its so painful and the end is so out of sight and I know i cant take it away that easily, but I care enough to walk with you through this. Obviously, this is going to change per person, this is simply what I would have wanted to hear in the pit of my depression. You can say anything you want too, you should try and slip past their defences but do NOT grant innocence, they want to be understood - not excused. Furthermore, you can suggest professional help but if youre talking to someone about depression, do not try to push them away with professional help. A lot of depressed people feel their circumstances arent bad enough to allow professional help and doing this pushes them away and they lose their connection of feeling human again. Talk to them. Listen to them. Try to understand what theyre going through. Theres is little more powerful to a depressed person, than someone who cares and understands. If anyone reading this is suffering from depression, hold on. Keep fighting. Listen to that small flicker of hope that says Try one more day, because its going to be okay. I dont know when and I certainly dont know how - but I do know itll be okay eventually. Go ahead and talk about it, even if you just want to vent to me, ill be there for you. Hopefully this has explained a bit about how depression feels and how to support them a bit better? I really hope it has given some insight, no matter how small, to how those depressed people may be feeling, I really hope you all learn from this and continue to support them. Now for more personal discussion, Is Depression Life Ruining or Life Changing? Thats a question I have struggled with for a very long time in my life, because the illness has caused so much pain and suffering for me, however I also know it has caused good in my life too (no matter how strange that feels to say). Depression, as I have previously discussed has clearly caused a lot of issues, pain, suffering and anguish for me which is why for a long time i adopted the opinion that depression was a life ruining illness which had ruined me inside and taken away any possibility of a future. However, I have since learned that depression is more Life Changing than Life Ruining. Depression, taught me a lot about the value of life, emotions and how I live my life. It has certainly caused me to be much more caring about mental health, more supportive and indeed a better listener as a result of it. For those out there reading this thinking, Why does this have to happen to me? It has taken away everything… Try and focus on what you have gained from it, I know its horrible and I wouldnt wish it on anyone, but it can certainly lead to us becoming better and wiser people. Take your experiences, show them to the world and help change someones life, in the same way I hope reading this is going to impact someone else. Its a daily struggle but one I wholeheartedly believe you can, and you will, win - stay strong. For a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come completely undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To someone who doesn't understand growth, it would look like complete destruction. -Remember, its a form of growth. I hope this has been helpful in some way, I appreciate you all and I hope this has helped you in someway, either via giving you hope or understanding. I look forward to seeing all your replies. -Jack. (Updated to reflect name and age).
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Having come across many listeners during my time on 7cups, it's always been a struggle finding a listener that is just right. I kid you not when I say Jack is the perfect listener. The right amount of care, mindfulness, empathy and an odd sense of serenity that surrounds him. Thank you.
he's good, and very trustworthy
Thank you SO much. You really were helpful, kind, calm and welcoming. A very high standard of listening, thanks for helping me feel better.
Fantabulous and Incredibubble. Thanks for everything!
This listener is truly magnificent , and the definition of supportive ! They have cared and helped through the situations I have encountered and the challenges I have had to face. They are compassionate and extremely loving and over all phenomenal ! They are around a lot of the times I am and it's also nice to receive a message from them !they are also very talented humble wise and fascinating to talk to ! I would highly recommend this listener to anyone and everyone
He's very sweet, kind, caring and understanding. Very helpful, I'm thankful for all that he did for me.
Really great listener, thanks for the help.
Incredible. Just so supportive and amazing. Attentive and sweet and extremely constructive
Baubs is an incredible listener. He is one of the most incredible people I have ever talked to the most understanding. He is adorable and compassionate and sweet. He has helped me so much and I am so grateful. I have never ever felt judged by him even the slightest bit and he is always there when I need him, even if it's for something small. I don't know what I would do without his encouraging words and support. I am so so grateful to have a friend like him!
so friendly and helpful. i love how he quotes things as well. he is so great with understanding every issue :) :)
He is an amazing listener; he is more then amazing. He is so kind and patient and he really cares. He will do everything in his power to make you smile and know that he is always there for you. He is the type of person you can always rely on for a shoulder. I am so happy to be able to find a guy like him. Someone who is always willing to listen! :D
Jack is fantastic. He made me feel loved and not alone, he is so nice and helpful and he will always do his best. Talking to him was relieving. Thank you SO much -I.
Really helpful and relatable. Very nice and comforting. >3
They made me feel welcome. I realized how helpful this website will be because of them. 10/10
Great listener.
Absoloutely Lovely. 100% Perfect.
I dont know what I would have done without him. Amazing listener and really, really helped me a lot. I couldnt thank you enough
Poetic Puzzle was great. They really helped me with figuring out how to solve my problems. They responded very quickly.
Jack, great listener, great friend, great support. Stick around some more, mate! Thank you for helping me and talking to me. Much appreciated, and I hope everything works out for you! - Leon
Jack is an amazing listener! I was finally able to vent out my feelings! Thank you so much for being there for me :)
Great listener, came with new perspectives and ideas while still listening to your way of thinking.
Great listener, I really love the way you listener and show empathy and how professionally you do it! Keep up the good work! - Niky
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Thank you for everything I think you might of changed my life
completely changed my mood into a hood one couldn't ask for a better friend to talk to
amazing helper , knows just what to say , makes me feel and thin better
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