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Ila
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Number of ratings297 Number of reviews89 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, Italian Listener sinceDec 3, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 2,557 People helped404 Chats5,186 Group support chats2,204 Listener group chats1,630 Forum posts1,467 Forum upvotes2,604
Bio
~ ON INDEFINITE BREAK, PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME ~

Hey there, I don't know who you are but it's nice to have your eyes looking at my profile! You can call me Ila (with capital i). I'm 22 and I'm a girl, coming from the beautiful Italy but currently living in Germany. I'm in University and I'm a programmer. I'm a straight-forward person, sometimes sarcastic and a bit silly but hardly ever uncomfortable with a topic. 

I will do everything to be a professional and empathetic guide because you only deserve the best, never feel like you're bothering or burdening me because you're absolutely not: I appreciate your courage and your choice to share your story with me.

If you ever feel alone, overwhelmed or lost, I hope you'll consider reaching out for support, it's not worthless at all. Looking for help is the first step for recovery.

"There's a world of difference between what we see and what is."
Recent forum posts
Honoring OpenDoor01's birthday!
Positivity & Gratitude / by Ila
Last post
May 24th, 2015
...See more Hey hey hey lovely community!!Yesterday, the 23rd May, was a very special day as it was one of a very recent and amazing mentor's birthday: @OpenDoor01 ! I am very sorry that you are getting this a day late!! My sincere apologies! But still, we are here to celebrate our astounding James’ birthday!James has been an important part of both teens and adult community and as teen I can tell that he is very loved here!! James, you are truly inspiring for all of us! You joined just a few months ago and look where you are now! I still remember when you became adult/teen listener, it was awesome to see you around and I found you funny from the first day! Also, you’re always there to help with projects, podcast, mentees, moderating, listening, WOW you are simply fabulous!I made a Prezi slideshow to celebrate this day with the community, thanks to everyone for submitting your message!Click me <3 [https://prezi.com/_cov4jrxx69s/james-birthday/]@Johnny20 @Params @vasishta @amboredd @Roadie @PoeticPuzzle @sweetBlueberry19 @armygirl1722 @Lyra @Silentlistener97 @EmmaGrace @Aishaaa_ @EnagmaticRebel22 @ilan @Lynnie @HiddenGrace @Noasu @Flourish  
Honoring Kash216's birthday!
Positivity & Gratitude / by Ila
Last post
August 27th, 2015
...See more Hey everyone! Today, the 21st May, we are celebrating the birthday of another well-known and appreciated listener here: @Kash216 ! Kash, I don’t know you personally as I am still a teen, but I heard lovely things about you! You are such a kind, nice, caring and sweet person to be around, everyone seems to like you and you’re already an example even if you’re still young, I wish you an awesome birthday as you’re a special and amazing person, thank you for all the things you do here, have a fantastic day!   Here are things all the community decided to tell you! Apologizes in advance for any spelling mistake, any missing name or if I confused any listener with a member :P @Johnny20 - Kash - On this special day, i wish you the very best, all the joy you can ever have and may you be blessed abundantly today, tomorrow and the days to come! May you have a fantastic birthday and many more to come... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! @Params - Kash... what can i say... you have been one of the most amazing people i have come across here.. and on your day,, i would love to wish you many many many many happy returns of the day... may the best of your past be the worst of your future... GBU dear :) @vasishta - happy Bday kash jaan !!!! <3 <3 <3 may god bless you with a awesome year ahead *huggles* @amboredd - Hi. Happy birthday, Kash! @Roadie - Happy birthday Kash :) @PoeticPuzzle - Hey, we don't know each other really however i want to wish you a happy birthday and hoe the year ahead is a great one for you! @sweetBlueberry19 - Happy Birthday hun, I hope you have an amazing day filled with lots and lots of joy and cookies and sweets <3 Lots of love, Rabea <3 @armygirl1722 - hi kash216 I don't know you but I just want you to know have a great birthday I hope its nice and have a great day @Lyra - Happy birthday Kash! Have a good one :) @Aishaaa_ - HAPPY BIRTHDAY :O :O so well we have literally met only today but i took a liking to you straight away :P in the half an hour or so that we talked i found you to be a very cheerful, lovely person to be around. you are one of those people i could immediately be myself around without holding back ,:P you have a wonderful profile btw :O i read through your reviews and i can immediately see you are an amazing listener and a valuable listener in this community :O I'm glad i met you, i hope you have a lovely day and have a wonderful new year in your life <3 *throws cake and confetti* :P @EnagmaticRebel22 - Happy Birthday Kash <3 Hope you feel amazing, and this next year is all highs and few lows for you. @Ilan - Happy birthday Kash mwah :) @Lynnie - Happy birthday! Have a wonderful day and be sure to eat tons of cake :) @HiddenGrace - Hi Kash! Thanks so much for all your dedication and hard work around the site. It's always so nice to see you in the Community Room. I hope that you have a wonderful amazing birthday! @Noasu - Hey Kash! Happy birthday. Hit me up anytime so we can celebrate and get to know each other more! :D @Flourish - Happy super powers, powered, birthday Kash! ^_^ CLICK ME! [http://www.wonderwomancollectors.com/cards-72la.jpg] @ApoorvaKhatri - Many many many happy returns of the day dashing Kash. As I always say you are a rock star. Be happy and Keep smiling .   There are a couple members as well, apparently you’re so famous that even members wanted to say happy birthday! I won’t put their username as I don’t think it’s appropriate in a Listener Forum, but if you want I can send my little birds to PM you the names! (; member1 - I don't know you, but it's not necessary to know you're an awesome person. Happy Birthday! member2 - Happy Birthday Kash! <3 You are an amazing person, listener, and friend. *Big Hugs* P.S. Hope you like your picture! :) :) CLICK ME [http://imgur.com/1GESMqO]! member3 - shun the myth, reverse your age, challenge yourself, turn life's new page, take adversities head on, act as if you were just born. smile often and be happy, live life totally carefree, happy birthday sis :)   Thanks everyone! <3
Honoring OrunLeon's 18th birthday!
Positivity & Gratitude / by Ila
Last post
August 2nd, 2015
...See more Hey everyone!It’s me, Resisti (as always) and today we’re celebrating the birthday of another important person in the community, @OrunLeon !Leon turns 18 today, the 18th of May, and to honor his hard work and his dedication, we decided to make you a video you can find here [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tn5vBXsLdM8]!Have a lovely day, Leon, I wish you the best and enjoy the adult side! :D   Thanks to the people who participated <3 It’s because of you all that the community is such an amazing place. @strawberries1101 @Maui @Ace13 @PeacefulCharlie @OpenDoor01 @scarlet25 @Niko @JennaHere @Emissaray @Harleen98 @Charlottegirly @Sparkleofhope @littlepony @Chrissy @Lynnie @alwayssmile0 @Laura @Aishaaa_ @PoeticPuzzle @RainbowandSunshine @ShiningLightRose @jacobisheretohelp @Josh-NYX @AkankshaP @Lyra
Honoring PoeticPuzzle's birthday!
Positivity & Gratitude / by Ila
Last post
May 8th, 2015
...See more Hey everyone! As you read in the title, today is the birthday of an awesome Listener: our @PoeticPuzzle!   Jack, you're so good. I've been knowing you for months, and I'm so glad I met you. I don't even remember how we started to PM, but I remember how you seemed nice, sweet and funny - and you're amazing! Leading that discussion with you was great, and you're a wonderful Moderator, really! I so appreciate you and your work, and I always enjoy chatting with you. Happy 17th birthday, I just with you the best year ever, because you deserve it.   Here are things other people wrote for you :) @strawberries1101 - Have an awesome birthday!!!! @Maui - Happy Birthday PoeticPuzzle : ) @Chioo - *throws confetti and gives you cake* HAPPY BIRTHDAY! :D @RainbowandSunshine - Happy Birthday! :D Don't ever lose your amazing-ness! :D @Ace13 - Happy Birthday!!! You are awesome ! Keep up the great work! @Jadie - Happy birthday, have a lovely day! Thanks for dedicating your precious time here on 7 cups - we are lucky to have you as a listener! @OpenDoor01 - Happy Birthday!!!!! Have a wonderful day!!!! :D @scarlet25 - Happy birthday 'princess' Jack :p you really are a very sweet and nice person! You don't even know how but you have helped me sooo much! Thank you for being such an amazing listener :D have fun! @Niko - Happy birthday PUZZZLEEEEE! Keep up the great work and all the best :D @JennaHere - I would like to wish you a very happy birthday and many more to come! @Harleen98 - Happy birthday Jack. Enjoy your day! I wish you good luck and a successful life ahead ! Stay awesome ❤❤❤❤ @Charlottegirly - Happy Birthday!! <3 Wishing you success,joy and happiness always! :) <3 xxx   @Sparkleofhope - Hey hey hey, Zayn! *waves enthusiastically* HAPPPPYY BIRTHDAYYY! IT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY *throws a cake at you* Remember? Or did you forget again? :P You're one amazing person and I'm sure everyone knows that because duh, you're that awesome! If I remember right, the first time I spoke to you was in TS when I asked you if your PP was Zayn *facepalm* You both look similar, really! Don't blame me. I was so heartbroken when you left 1D :'( But I suppose it's okay *blows nose* I hope you know that you're a wonderful human being because you deserve to know that. I know for sure that you're an amazing listener as well and all of what you do is deeply appreciated. Your poems are amazing, btw. Have a super duper wonderful day, Jack (LOOK! I used your real name XD I feel so mature) I hope we get to celebrate your birthday here on 7cups when you turn 67 *throws a sack of sparkles and confetti at you* Nom well and have a fun day, Zayn! @littlepony - pikachuuuuuu omg my buddy its your birthday hugs from back oops you forget to catch me always :P buddy chocolate cake for meeeee and yeah loads of hugs that's the only gift i can giveeeeee @sweetBlueberry19 - Happy Birthday to an awesome listener, wishing you the best Poetic Puzzled Jack :O - health and success and lots of happiness in life because you deserve it no matter what! :) Never stop dreaming and never stop being happy and the amazing person and strong person you are now, last of all hope you have an amazing day filled with lots of cake and wonderful experiences! *throws confetti and hands you a cupcake* Lots of love ♥ @Chrissy - Yayyy Jack! Happy Birthday, you're super awesome, an amazing mod and listener :D Also you and a certain person are suuuuuuuuuper cute!!! Have a lovely day <3 @Lynnie - Happy birthday! :D Have an awesome day! @alwayssmile0 - I don't know you very well. But you're in the community and I know you're very active in it. I want to congratulate you for your birthday and for being a world changer, making people feel better. Happy birthday!! Much love, Zoe. @KeepOnSmiling - Zzzzzzzzzzzzzaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyynnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!! YOU OLDIE <3 HAPPY BIRTHDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!! You're awesome, but I'm pretty sure you don't need me to tell you that for you to know it ;) You are seriously someone who is greatly valued here and is pretty amazing for all that you dedicate to this site! You're one of the best mods out there, one of the best listeners, and definitely one of the greatest people I've had the honour of talking to! I hope you have such a brilliant birthday and an even more awesomer year coming up ahead!!! EAT LOTS OF CAKE AND OPEN PLENTY OF PRESENTS! DON'T FORGET TO SHARE WITH US :P Happy birthday again Jack <3 (OMG I USED YOUR REAL NAME #shock) Hahaha, love ya Zayn, and I hope you enjoy your special oldie day! :D @Laura - Happy Birthday PoeticPuzzle! Every birthday is a wonderful time to celebrate, reflect and enjoy life! Thank you for the love you bring to our community! *hugs* @OrunLeon - Hey Jack, happy birthday! I hope you're spending it to the fullest and having a blast! I just want to say thank you for being here on 7 Cups and helping out so many people you've come across. Calm, precise, professional and kind: those are some mega great qualities that you possess on here to which I've had the pleasure of seeing in action. Without a doubt one of the best moderators and listeners on our side. It's was fantastic to have worked with you and talked to you. Take care, and enjoy whatever is to come! @Pinkbluebells - Hiya my lil Puzzlee Buzzleee ^.^ hope you have an amazeballs day- it's fair to say you're one of the most compassionate, accepting, kind people I know- don't ever stop being you- you're amazing. Hopefully I speak to you very soon- stay awesome xxx   Happy 17th again Jack! :D
Feedback & Reviews
Ila is awesomely amazing! Nice and very caring
Probably the best person I've ever met
I've never met anyone so kind, empathetic, understanding and supportive in my life. Honestly a really great person!
So nice and has knowledge on many things, gives good advice and is so welcoming!
perfect listener!
Great!
Illa is the most incredible, kind, understanding, lovely person i‘ve met here on this app. She responds with kindness and really does her best to make you feel better and help you. Such an incredible soul. I can’t put in words, how thankful I am for finding her here. Truly a blessing. Illa: keep doing love. You are amazing.
Ila is really kind and understanding. She listens to you, make you feel more calm and provide valuable suggestions. I highly recommend speaking to her and I'm looking forward to talk to you soon :) Thanks!
The best on this site. Very knowledgeable on all subjects. Kind and helpful. I know she's a volunteer but give her a raise.
She's the nicest person I have met on here so far. She replies fast and let's you know when she can't talk, but even then she will try to set a time to continue. And she shows genuine interest in the conversation. And on top of all that, she has a great sense of humor! :)
I think you're a pretty great listener ~ Em
ila was super amazing, so sweet, so kind, so caring, so empathetic and i could just relate to her so much
A brilliant listener. Always focused on the positive, without discounting the negative. She was very supportive and cared deeply about my problems, as was evident from the length of her messages. She made me feel cared for, and helped me unpack some very heavy things.
sent in a request to highest rated listener online and i see why the ratings were so high. very helpful and non judgmental!
Ila is amazing as always
helpful amazing
Very lovely listener. She was kind, empathetic, and supportive to the max. Best listener I have spoken to. I recommend Ila for anyone who is having a hard time and needs someone to vent to. She's super caring and will make you feel better with her support and caring words.
Incredibly supportive and easy to talk to, listens very well and made me feel comfortable.
It was really lovely speaking to her she gave me some good advices and she was being really sweet and understanding
Ila is truly incredible, she cares like no one else and is there for you, she takes time to listen to you and will definitely make you feel better. She's inspiring and I would recommend her to everyone! She will help you understand yourself better and she will offer the best support throughout your situation. She is very considerate and will make sure you feel comfortable sharing your story. She will not let you down! I am so blessed to have her in my life and to be able to talk to her. I love you, Ila, you're the best! Keep being amazing
I have only just begun talking with Ila, and I can already say that she is so sweet and caring and genuine. She is not a robotic listener, and is realistic to the situation, yet very kind and just has a lovely aura to be around. I'm glad I get to speak with her :)
Ila is absolutely amazyyyinggg !!!💜 She's super sweet, kind, friendly and caring and she's also just the right balance between a professional listener and an incredible human friend !! Talking to her feels just like talking to a bestie ❤ and I can't thank her enough for putting up with my mega essay rant messages xD Basically Ila is the most fantabulously awesometastic listener on the 7cupsy planet and I absolutely loveee being able to talk with her !! Thankies sooo much !! With all my loaf ~ Hopey Alien 👽 💙
ILA IS DA BEST,
Very kind and helpful person. I feel better having talked to her.
Great Listener, Helped me through a rough time of change
ILAVE ILA lol seriously though she is really great and stuffs and yayayay swag coolio julio i love her um yep its zerzer ezzzmonster 2000 yep yep yep IM SLEEP DEPRIVED but yolo, and if you don't include this rating at least just include this part:
Ila is an amazing listener, she's so helpful and sweet!
she is a great listener she tries her best to help me
thank you i appreciate it alot!!!
Attentively listened and questioned me well to keep the chat flowing, suggested helpful resources to enable self help.
Ila, is perfect. She's amazing.
Thanks
Your existence in this world lightens it, your sympathy makes me feel the universe understands me, your smile opens up my heart, your time make me feel worth it, your words gives me a taste of life, your caring makes me feel loved, everything about you is so special, and talking with you is yet very special.
There is more to be said about you, but words won't describe what I really feel, so I leave you with what I feel, I have tried to say what I wanted to say, but still words doesn't suit my needs.
*hugs* TS-of-ATL
We've only had one conversation yet, but she already helped me so much. She's really nice, understandable and helpful :) Thank you
pretty and nice. really brightens mood
Turned my day completely around.
she helped so much
so so incredibly nice and really understanding
Ila is the most supportive and amazing listener I've communicated with. She's great. 10/10
Ila helped me very much, she is very nice and understanding
Ila is amazing, kind, beautiful and approachable! Would always come too her and trust her!
Hilary ⊙▽⊙ how can I ever thank you? This Listener is deserving of the highest award, I'm not an easy person to put up with but she was patient, quick to respond, and exceptionally understanding. It didn't hurt that she was incredibly sweet as well, my day went from awful to amazing in the time I spent speaking with her. If you can pick just one Listener, make sure it's this one! Thank you so much for your kindness, compassion and love - I shall never forget. Highly recommended, would have given 10 stars if I could have! c: I don't do hearts often but for her, always. ♥♥
Ila is so inspirational!!! Hands down, a true inspiration and someone to look up to! She is AMAZING
shes literally the best
SO amazing so nice so caring. So awesome . She deserves million dollars
She was a wonderful listener. Ila gave me some resources to help myself after understanding my situation and reluctance to seek outside help.
One of the best out there, really tries her best to come to the best conclusion.
Resisti is bae :)
Ils, you are amazing! You are my favorite listener, definitely the best on this site! I
For the first time in so long, I feel like someone really understood me, Hilary helped me so much to accept myself, and I finally feel like I'm ready to face the world, knowing that she has my back. Thank you so much, you will never know just how much you truly helped me.
She is a great Listener, maybe the best I've ever chatted with! :)
Thank you for taking your time out and talking to me. -Metronome
This girl is tough as nails, and is also super sweet and supportive. One of a kind
Hils Hilary Resisti :) ♥ is the awesomest listener ever always there for you when you need it - and always ready to help out when you need it thank you so much for being there ♥♥
u helped me a lot...thnks....wanna talk to u again...
Very helpful
Ila is an amazing listener and a perfect friend to have. She's sympathetic, empathetic, understanding and intelligent and will calm you down in a peaceful manner. She's very kind and offers and amazing way of listening to your troubles and is willing to help you solve them. - PP
Shes awsome and really shows alot of empathy. made me feel better immediatly...gave me good advice and solutions. :-)
Amazing listener, best one out there. She gives great advice as well!
Wonderful listener and a great friend to help you through anything! (her youtube video is also excellent)
She's so lovely, she's always there for me when I need her. Thank you ❤️
i love talking to her
Really helpful, I loved her
Thanks a lot, you helped
She may have been busy, but she sure replies fast! She has been super helpful, and not robot-like, as I've found a lot of the listeners tend to be.
She is a wonderful human being.
Resisti is a fantastic listener. No-one on this site has helped me as much as her!!! She has helped me overcome a tough challenge and was there to talk to me from the very start. She is sooooo amazinggggg. From your biggest fan :3
You're too good ;) -Leon
Very helpful and an awesome listener! If you have a problem, go to her, she's amazing!
She's a great listener, she's smart and she knows what she's doing, i recommend her!
Resisti was really supportive and the chat made me feel a lot better :)
Such great help!
shes really nice, i felt really understood
She's really nice. And helpful. She's very comforting. Thanks Resisti
She's very kind and she is actually here to help people. I am so glad i found her, also she speaks italian which is my first language.
great listener and motivation!
Sweet and funny
Resisti is not only a listener, but also a friend. She is so nice
a great person, really helpful!
Risotto is just amazing and everyone who thinks differently is not smart!
She is so caring, I'm glad I met her
She's just amazing
I really recommend her, she is helpful, emphatic and polite. The best listener ever!
Thank you for being such a kind person, Resisti. I love you.
Resisti really knows how to help me. She knows a lot. She is awesome.
Resisti is really kind person. She cares so much about other people and she is really nice. She has loads of knowledge on many issues, and she is really helpful.
Resisti has been very helpful person for me. She has helped me with stress and self harm. She is really kind and specially empathic and she has helped me so much with my problems.
She helped me so much, she is amazing
My LucK Charm !
Just Amazing company !
One of the most usefull persons i've found so far
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