Ila
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Exemplar 14
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Number of ratings297
Number of reviews89
Listens toTeens & Over 18
LanguagesEnglish, Italian
Listener sinceDec 3, 2014
Last activeover 6 months ago
GenderFemale
PathStep 2,557
People helped404
Chats5,186
Group support chats2,204
Listener group chats1,630
Forum posts1,467
Forum upvotes2,604
Bio
~ ON INDEFINITE BREAK, PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME ~
Hey there, I don't know who you are but it's nice to have your eyes looking at my profile! You can call me Ila (with capital i). I'm 22 and I'm a girl, coming from the beautiful Italy but currently living in Germany. I'm in University and I'm a programmer. I'm a straight-forward person, sometimes sarcastic and a bit silly but hardly ever uncomfortable with a topic.
I will do everything to be a professional and empathetic guide because you only deserve the best, never feel like you're bothering or burdening me because you're absolutely not: I appreciate your courage and your choice to share your story with me.
If you ever feel alone, overwhelmed or lost, I hope you'll consider reaching out for support, it's not worthless at all. Looking for help is the first step for recovery.
"There's a world of difference between what we see and what is."
Hey there, I don't know who you are but it's nice to have your eyes looking at my profile! You can call me Ila (with capital i). I'm 22 and I'm a girl, coming from the beautiful Italy but currently living in Germany. I'm in University and I'm a programmer. I'm a straight-forward person, sometimes sarcastic and a bit silly but hardly ever uncomfortable with a topic.
I will do everything to be a professional and empathetic guide because you only deserve the best, never feel like you're bothering or burdening me because you're absolutely not: I appreciate your courage and your choice to share your story with me.
If you ever feel alone, overwhelmed or lost, I hope you'll consider reaching out for support, it's not worthless at all. Looking for help is the first step for recovery.
"There's a world of difference between what we see and what is."
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Feedback & Reviews
Ila is awesomely amazing! Nice and very caring
Probably the best person I've ever met
I've never met anyone so kind, empathetic, understanding and supportive in my life. Honestly a really great person!
So nice and has knowledge on many things, gives good advice and is so welcoming!
perfect listener!
Great!
Illa is the most incredible, kind, understanding, lovely person i‘ve met here on this app. She responds with kindness and really does her best to make you feel better and help you. Such an incredible soul. I can’t put in words, how thankful I am for finding her here. Truly a blessing. Illa: keep doing love. You are amazing.
Ila is really kind and understanding. She listens to you, make you feel more calm and provide valuable suggestions. I highly recommend speaking to her and I'm looking forward to talk to you soon :) Thanks!
The best on this site. Very knowledgeable on all subjects. Kind and helpful. I know she's a volunteer but give her a raise.
She's the nicest person I have met on here so far. She replies fast and let's you know when she can't talk, but even then she will try to set a time to continue. And she shows genuine interest in the conversation. And on top of all that, she has a great sense of humor! :)
I think you're a pretty great listener ~ Em
ila was super amazing, so sweet, so kind, so caring, so empathetic and i could just relate to her so much
A brilliant listener. Always focused on the positive, without discounting the negative. She was very supportive and cared deeply about my problems, as was evident from the length of her messages. She made me feel cared for, and helped me unpack some very heavy things.
sent in a request to highest rated listener online and i see why the ratings were so high. very helpful and non judgmental!
Ila is amazing as always
helpful amazing
Very lovely listener. She was kind, empathetic, and supportive to the max. Best listener I have spoken to. I recommend Ila for anyone who is having a hard time and needs someone to vent to. She's super caring and will make you feel better with her support and caring words.
Incredibly supportive and easy to talk to, listens very well and made me feel comfortable.
It was really lovely speaking to her she gave me some good advices and she was being really sweet and understanding
Ila is truly incredible, she cares like no one else and is there for you, she takes time to listen to you and will definitely make you feel better. She's inspiring and I would recommend her to everyone! She will help you understand yourself better and she will offer the best support throughout your situation. She is very considerate and will make sure you feel comfortable sharing your story. She will not let you down! I am so blessed to have her in my life and to be able to talk to her. I love you, Ila, you're the best! Keep being amazing
I have only just begun talking with Ila, and I can already say that she is so sweet and caring and genuine. She is not a robotic listener, and is realistic to the situation, yet very kind and just has a lovely aura to be around. I'm glad I get to speak with her :)
Ila is absolutely amazyyyinggg !!!💜 She's super sweet, kind, friendly and caring and she's also just the right balance between a professional listener and an incredible human friend !! Talking to her feels just like talking to a bestie ❤ and I can't thank her enough for putting up with my mega essay rant messages xD Basically Ila is the most fantabulously awesometastic listener on the 7cupsy planet and I absolutely loveee being able to talk with her !! Thankies sooo much !! With all my loaf ~ Hopey Alien 👽 💙
ILA IS DA BEST,
Very kind and helpful person. I feel better having talked to her.
Great Listener, Helped me through a rough time of change
ILAVE ILA lol seriously though she is really great and stuffs and yayayay swag coolio julio i love her um yep its zerzer ezzzmonster 2000 yep yep yep IM SLEEP DEPRIVED but yolo, and if you don't include this rating at least just include this part:
Ila is an amazing listener, she's so helpful and sweet!
Ila is an amazing listener, she's so helpful and sweet!
she is a great listener she tries her best to help me
thank you i appreciate it alot!!!
thank you i appreciate it alot!!!
Attentively listened and questioned me well to keep the chat flowing, suggested helpful resources to enable self help.
Ila, is perfect. She's amazing.
Thanks
Your existence in this world lightens it, your sympathy makes me feel the universe understands me, your smile opens up my heart, your time make me feel worth it, your words gives me a taste of life, your caring makes me feel loved, everything about you is so special, and talking with you is yet very special.
There is more to be said about you, but words won't describe what I really feel, so I leave you with what I feel, I have tried to say what I wanted to say, but still words doesn't suit my needs.
*hugs* TS-of-ATL
There is more to be said about you, but words won't describe what I really feel, so I leave you with what I feel, I have tried to say what I wanted to say, but still words doesn't suit my needs.
*hugs* TS-of-ATL
We've only had one conversation yet, but she already helped me so much. She's really nice, understandable and helpful :) Thank you
pretty and nice. really brightens mood
Turned my day completely around.
she helped so much
so so incredibly nice and really understanding
Ila is the most supportive and amazing listener I've communicated with. She's great. 10/10
Ila helped me very much, she is very nice and understanding
Ila is amazing, kind, beautiful and approachable! Would always come too her and trust her!
Hilary ⊙▽⊙ how can I ever thank you? This Listener is deserving of the highest award, I'm not an easy person to put up with but she was patient, quick to respond, and exceptionally understanding. It didn't hurt that she was incredibly sweet as well, my day went from awful to amazing in the time I spent speaking with her. If you can pick just one Listener, make sure it's this one! Thank you so much for your kindness, compassion and love - I shall never forget. Highly recommended, would have given 10 stars if I could have! c: I don't do hearts often but for her, always. ♥♥
Ila is so inspirational!!! Hands down, a true inspiration and someone to look up to! She is AMAZING
shes literally the best
SO amazing so nice so caring. So awesome . She deserves million dollars
She was a wonderful listener. Ila gave me some resources to help myself after understanding my situation and reluctance to seek outside help.
One of the best out there, really tries her best to come to the best conclusion.
Resisti is bae :)
Ils, you are amazing! You are my favorite listener, definitely the best on this site! I
For the first time in so long, I feel like someone really understood me, Hilary helped me so much to accept myself, and I finally feel like I'm ready to face the world, knowing that she has my back. Thank you so much, you will never know just how much you truly helped me.
She is a great Listener, maybe the best I've ever chatted with! :)
Thank you for taking your time out and talking to me. -Metronome
This girl is tough as nails, and is also super sweet and supportive. One of a kind
Hils Hilary Resisti :) ♥ is the awesomest listener ever always there for you when you need it - and always ready to help out when you need it thank you so much for being there ♥♥
u helped me a lot...thnks....wanna talk to u again...
Very helpful
Ila is an amazing listener and a perfect friend to have. She's sympathetic, empathetic, understanding and intelligent and will calm you down in a peaceful manner. She's very kind and offers and amazing way of listening to your troubles and is willing to help you solve them. - PP
Shes awsome and really shows alot of empathy. made me feel better immediatly...gave me good advice and solutions. :-)
Amazing listener, best one out there. She gives great advice as well!
Wonderful listener and a great friend to help you through anything! (her youtube video is also excellent)
She's so lovely, she's always there for me when I need her. Thank you ❤️
i love talking to her
Really helpful, I loved her
Thanks a lot, you helped
She may have been busy, but she sure replies fast! She has been super helpful, and not robot-like, as I've found a lot of the listeners tend to be.
She is a wonderful human being.
Resisti is a fantastic listener. No-one on this site has helped me as much as her!!! She has helped me overcome a tough challenge and was there to talk to me from the very start. She is sooooo amazinggggg. From your biggest fan :3
You're too good ;) -Leon
Very helpful and an awesome listener! If you have a problem, go to her, she's amazing!
She's a great listener, she's smart and she knows what she's doing, i recommend her!
Resisti was really supportive and the chat made me feel a lot better :)
Such great help!
shes really nice, i felt really understood
She's really nice. And helpful. She's very comforting. Thanks Resisti
She's very kind and she is actually here to help people. I am so glad i found her, also she speaks italian which is my first language.
great listener and motivation!
Sweet and funny
Resisti is not only a listener, but also a friend. She is so nice
a great person, really helpful!
Risotto is just amazing and everyone who thinks differently is not smart!
She is so caring, I'm glad I met her
She's just amazing
I really recommend her, she is helpful, emphatic and polite. The best listener ever!
Thank you for being such a kind person, Resisti. I love you.
Resisti really knows how to help me. She knows a lot. She is awesome.
Resisti is really kind person. She cares so much about other people and she is really nice. She has loads of knowledge on many issues, and she is really helpful.
Resisti has been very helpful person for me. She has helped me with stress and self harm. She is really kind and specially empathic and she has helped me so much with my problems.
She helped me so much, she is amazing
My LucK Charm !
Just Amazing company !
One of the most usefull persons i've found so far
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