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HumourousPlum
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Addiction Support / by HumourousPlum
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December 1st, 2020
...See more Hi, I have tried to use the search facility to find a listener who has a shared experience but I don't think it's specific enough. I need to talk to someone, to understand porn addiction, as I think that is the root cause of what has ultimately wrecked my life. I need to find a way of understanding it or reconciling it in some way. There will likely be triggers and talk about some extreme elements and I don't want anyone to be overwhelmed or taken out of their comfort zone. I don't know where else to turn. Is there anyone who feels able to give this a try? Someone with experience in both the subject matter and in listening? Thank you.
Ongoing Trauma
Trauma Support / by HumourousPlum
Last post
October 29th, 2020
...See more Hi, I'm new and am currently living in what can only be described as a waking nightmare. My whole world has been turned upside down in the blink of an eye and I'm not quite out the other side yet. I have been trying to access support out in the world but I am being turned away due to red-tape and it's crushing my trust in these organisations. I'm feeling betrayed and am just trying to keep it together so that I can move through to the other side. I get the impression that most people are here due to a past trauma and the ongoing effecfs of it and I'm worried that for that reason, I might not fit in here but I don't know where else to go. I'm still on this roller coaster and don't really know what to expect when it comes to an end and what my life will be like then. I can't make any plans for the future or look forward to anything. I know this experience is going to affect me for years to come and I have changed so much already. I don't know what I'm asking for really. Sorry if it's felt I don't belong.
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