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Hi! My name's Grace and I use she/her pronouns. I’m here for you, it will get better.❤️ I will try to get back to you quickly. Send me a message!

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I See You
Trauma Support / by Gracehh21
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...See more I hope you can all give yourselves some grace and love today <3 As a sexual assault survivor, I want to tell you that I love you, and I am rooting for you. I hope my story doesn't trigger any of you but gives you a perspective from someone who might be like you, dealing with stuff no one should have to deal with. You're so strong. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need to talk - even if I'm not frequently on here. ------------------------- In 2022, I was sexually assaulted during my sophomore year of college (not including two other times it happened to me to a lesser degree), and it has taken the last 2 years to get over it, with the immense help of therapy. I still struggle with hypersexuality in the form of se-ting, self-esteem issues, feeling lonely, and feeling like I'll never be able to find a partner/be with a partner in the future because of what happened to me. What he did was wrong, and he tried to say that what happened was on both of us because we were both drinking that night. His only concern was not getting kicked out of school because I might report him (I never did). I hadn't said yes to anything except kissing, but he thought it was okay to continue after I stopped him once, and throughout those ten minutes, I didn't explicitly say yes to anything. Only nodding and not making a lot of eye contact. It also took me 2 weeks to realize anything felt remotely off or out of place before I confronted him about it. In the end, it's a learning process, and please don't beat yourself up about what happened or what you could've done better. It was not your fault <3
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My Friend’s $ Management
Relationship Stress / by Gracehh21
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 April 18th, 2022
...See more Hi 👋 I kind of wanted to rant here so a reply isnt necessary but appreciated :) My friend has trouble managing her money. The whole time I’ve known her since we met last fall, she’s been low on savings and would continuously put it out there in conversation. We’d be in a friend group, talking about buying clothes and then she’d just say “that’s nice but I don’t really have money.” Or I’d offer to pay for her food or something and she’d say thank you or that I don’t have to do that and I will say “it’s not a problem.” I do it to be nice but when she says I’ll pay you back, she’s only done that maybe once. I’m trying to stop myself from offering now, and just ignoring when she says she doesn’t have money for stuff. overall it just makes everything awkward for me and the friends we hang out worth when she brings it up. One time we all were going to get food and she said “I cant get anything cause I don’t have money, but I’ll go with y’all and talk.” That’s so awkward for everyone. and now, she just got her tax return so she’s got like $400 in her account but she’s starting to splurge on things on Amazon because she can. I can understand cause after not having money for a long time finally having some is fun for her but I’m just waiting for the day she says “I spent all my money and now I’m regretting buying all those things.” And I’ll have to bite my tongue but in my head I’d be saying “it makes sense, you did this to yourself and didn’t manage your money well.” anyway, thank you for reading If you got this far.
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