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Gouws13
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5 star rating
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Number of ratings185 Number of reviews33 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Afrikaans Listener sinceSep 11, 2014 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 1,136 People helped531 Chats2,255 Group support chats25 Listener group chats296 Forum posts21 Forum upvotes24
Bio

You've got 86,400 seconds today, have you used one to smile?I'm not judgmental.Hobbies are probably:Metal music, gaming,series and movies and being with friends and trying to understand this life of ours.I'll try my best to help and make a difference !
"Keep in mind that part of growing up is dealing with difficult issues, and the benefits can be great if you have the courage to ask for help. Human beings are not designed to go through life alone. No one has to bear the burden of tough times all by themselves"
"When you smile about the life you live, you end up living a life worth smiling about."
"Set an example. Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you – not because they are nice, but because you are."
"Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, it's at the end of your arm, as you get older, remember you have another hand: The first is to help yourself, the second is to help others."
"I don't believe you have to be better than everybody else. I believe you have to be better than you ever thought you could be"
"Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life."
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Feedback & Reviews
Understanding.
Good and honest
One of the best listeners I've spoken to. So lovely and caring.
Very perceptive and responsive
Good listener keep up the good work!!!
Took me by the hand and helped guide me out of the black hole I was tumbling into . Thank you, for you caring, your honesty and for your compassion .
Somehow Gouws13 knew exactly what to say. My first experience with 7cups was amazing XD
Super Chill!! Loved the way he listened to all i had to say and just help me through and make me smile!!
He's a really kind person who is easy to talk to. At the end of the day, when you feel alone, it helps to have a light chat, and he's great at that. And he's interesting!
Thank you, i feel much better now!
An amazing friend to have! Couldn't have wished for anyone better ❤ thank yoi for putting up with me! I know i can be a handful sometimes :p
An amazing friend. Couldn't have wished for a better friend ❤❤❤
Good listener. Asked questions that really helps you think.
It was an unusual experience. One that gouws enjoyed.
Really cool and honest person.
great
Very patient and empathetic guy. I appreciate him taking his time to listen to me.
Thanks
great!
This guy is a living legend
She is real good with her words of wisdom
Made me feel like they really cared, even though I didn't say much. Thank you!
she is very good. i felt better in no time at all. amazing listener, love you
:)
Amazing person not only makes u feel good but makes u feel like you have a freind :D
great one! number 1! :)
the best listener i ever have. Loving, caring, and polite!
excellent listener, makes you feel pretty good!
Very good listener. He helps alot, thank you so much!
AWESOME
great
Nice :)
Amazing!
just what i wanted ! a stranger friend ! :)
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