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FroggyGirl
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PathStep 11 Compassion hearts12 Forum posts11 Forum upvotes16 Current upvotes16 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2020 Member sinceDecember 13, 2015
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Depressive since my teenage years, I am trying to find ways to cope.
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I think I am struggling ? ( again ?)
Depression Support / by FroggyGirl
Last post
 January 12th, 2020
...See more Hi guys ! I just really need to let it out I guess. I have been struggling with down period since I was eleven. This mean 18 years of hard times. And since the beginning of december, it is a hard time again. I guess it is not helped by a lot of changes in my life. It seems harder this times. I can't find a handle on it. I am just so tired, exhausted, bored with everything and so damn angry with life.I know it had been hard for people who cares about me because I am so angry all the time. Helpless. I just can't find in me the strengh to hope the future will be diffrent. Or that life can really be fullfilling, as I was told it would be growing up. I am really just down and tired. And grateful you read this. I really needed to just share. It helps. Thank you.
I have to end it but I am going to lose her.
Relationship Stress / by FroggyGirl
Last post
 May 5th, 2017
...See more Okay, I need to talk about it because I feel so bad and anxious all the time. For three weeks now, I have been dating my best friend. We have known each other for over three years now and we are really close. We were talking all the time, seeing each other whenever we could, we had the same tastes, the same friends, ... Of course, the idea we could have something more crossed my mind, but for many reasons, I never though about making it happenned. I had depression and anxiety for years, and I have so many questions about my own sexuality I did not want to go further. The two of us even had a conversation about how hard it was sometimes to make difference between a strong, deep, sincere friendship and being in love. Maybe I should have seen it coming then. Three weeks ago we were hanging together when she confessed to me, all nerves and crying. Like I said, I had though about it but I had my reserves. I told her we could maybe try it and see where it would go, that I wanted things to go slow, to see. She agreed to it, all happy. At first, I was fine. But with time, I realised it was not good at all. I still see her as a friend and I really don't feel comfortable as more. it makes me so unease. I feel like I love her so much, but not in a romantic way. And she is so enthusiastic about it, always texting, ... I feel so bad because it is unfair for her, and if I had been able to have a more clear mind about the situation, I could have said no to her in the first place. The worst is I don't even know what I would have said even if had been sure : I am so anxious and all that I can't say no to people because I feel bad for them. But anyway, now it is too late. I dread the next time we are going to see each other. But every minute of every day is also so painful for me. I feel like I have lost my friend. And whenever we chat togerther I feel sick, anxious, nauseous. I barely sleep. I have been in a new depressive episode for two weeks, and I barely can get up in the morning. I feel guilty for what I did but the worst is the way I resent her and I am almost hating every messages she send to me because it brings me back to the situation. She does not deserve the way I react to that. I am horrible. It is all my fault, and it is goind to end so bad. I ask myself so many questions ... Would she have reacted better if I had not even try ? Am I going to lose her completely ? Am I going to lose my other friends over it ? And I am always trying to reason with myself, like if I talk to her early, how it does not make it for me, she will understand. and with the strong frienship we had, it can work. But it feels so childish. I feel guilty, selfish and angry. I don't deserve her. I am just trapped. Sorry for the long rant. I had to share, because I can't talk with anyone.
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