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Finny17
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My name is Finn and I am 18

Im not picky about pronouns but I generally prefer he/him and they/them over she/her 











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Friends don’t forget meee
Pen Pals / by Finny17
Last post
 May 4th
...See more I am going to @ everyone in my bio cause yall are my friends and I love you /p @CatHanderOutNoah @lgbterio @thatcrazysystem99 @unassumingEyes @bluesheepfriend @elccc @Sully012251 @steph8402 i won’t be on much tomorrow cause it’s my b-day weekend but I hope to talk to you all through forums and don’t forget meeeeee. Also if I forgot anyone or got any @ wrong lemme know 🙇 I will miss yall soooo much 
Use sr not tcr
Group Support / by Finny17
Last post
 February 24th
...See more This is a vent, I will be cursing as I am vv angry atm (tw alcohol talk in tcr) I am vv aware that there is prolly a lot of other places this anger is coming from and it’s just coming out here but for *** sake. Tcr is not the *** place to talk about serious stuff that could trigger people. If people are trying to convince you why drinking is bad then you shouldn’t *** be in tcr. I went to sr with someone because while neither of us were really struggling we knew it was a darker topic that shouldn’t be talked about in tcr. Idc if you are a newbie it’s really obvious when the name is literally support room, if I say go to sr just go to *** sr. Idc if it’s something that I personally am not triggered by I don’t want you talking about that kinda *** when I just want to hang out with people and chill. And then when I ask you to stop *** stop like *** is it really that hard. There are diff rooms for a reason and ik the lgbtq room is prolly the least used/specific room but tcr and sr are so use them for what they are meant for. I’d rather you have a happy convo in sr (which might be interrupted by someone wanting support) than in tcr where you could trigger someone who just wanted to freaking hang out omg it is not that hard people use your brains 
Twisted irony
Trauma Support / by Finny17
Last post
 February 13th
...See more Tw pedo, sexual abuse I’ve been used sexually for a long time by different people. My parents sexualize me especially my dad who is creepy. From as young as I can remember people have touched me. Although ik this is my brains way of surviving I like it now. Being seen and used as an object. It’s become a kink. Like genuinely rape kink. I hate it. Even pedofilia and being used by someone older than me part of me likes. It’s horrible I don’t want this. I swear I don’t like it or condone it but ever since I was in elementary school the idea made me feel things. I used to search for these kinds of people, they made me feel wanted, attractive and loved. I feel horrible about it, guilty. Does anyone have any experience with this or know how to deal with it? I just hope I’m not alone
How to get into exercise
Motivation & Accountability / by Finny17
Last post
 March 4th
...See more I am unhappy with the way I look, I’ve gone down some bad paths trying to ‘fix’ it but I want to do it the right way. I love myself and how I look but I would love to lose weight cause ik I’d be EVEN MORE attractive if I did. How do I get into it? I’m also on the heavier side some sometimes doing a workout will genuinely hurt and idk the difference between good hurt and bad hurt. Any advice or ideas , even kind words is greatly appreciated!!
Unmotivated
Motivation & Accountability / by Finny17
Last post
 January 5th
...See more Despite wanting to do things like brush my teeth or go for a walk I seem to get stuck, like I cannot bring myself to get up and do it. Any advice?
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