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TL;DR A guy in my Spanish class may or may not be flirting with me
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Enby15
Last post
 August 28th, 2023
...See more Hey Y'all. I (AFAB NB 16) have a crush on a guy (15) in my Spanish Class. We have had three days of school, and I am already crushing hard. He is charismatic, kind, adorable, and his sense of humor is amazing. On the first day of school, I was standing outside the classroom waiting for a friend. He was also standing outside the classroom, and he looks at me and says (in Spanish,) "How are you?" and I say (in Spanish) "I'm okay, how are you?" and we start talking. Afterschool, we walk home in the same direction, and we talked some more. Second day of school, we get our assigned seats, and he sits directly behind me. And I mean the back of my desk is pushed against the front of his. We sit in the back corner of the classroom. When he went to take his seat, he bumped himself and when I asked if he was okay, he said "Now I am." He makes little jokes with me throughout class. He also calls me short in Spanish a lot. I'm not actually that short. I'm a solid 5ft 5in. I'm pretty average. Besides he's maybe 5 inches taller than me. I should note that he calls me the feminine version of short, not the masculine one. I call him crazy (in Spanish), to which he always replies (in Spanish), smiling, "yes. Very." He mentioned that he learned Spanish from studying frogs in Spanish. I Love frogs. I have a frog beanie I made in my backpack. I showed him and his reaction was adorable. We did a class wide review quiz in class on that second day, where each student would get one question. One of the questions was "How do you say Miss in Spanish?" and he goes "rrrRrrr Senorita." (Idk how to spell it but he rolled his tongue before.) and it made me laugh so he kept doing it. On the third day of class, he called me the feminine version of short again and I corrected him to the masculine version. He asked if it would be the feminine one because I'm female. I wrote the word "nonbinary" on a piece of paper and showed him it. He nodded like he understood. I honestly couldn't decipher his reaction. I don't think he is mad, and I think he's okay with it, but I don't know. I'm nervous this will change his opinion of me. Our teacher was going over ways that we could get bonus points. One of them is to bring in an authentic Spanish dish for the class to share. She explains that cooking for the whole class and translating the recipe can be a daunting task, so we are allowed to work with a partner if we would like. He immediately turned to me and asked if I wanted to make churros with him. We also did one of those get to know you scavenger hunts where you have to find someone who has a dog and find someone left-handed and someone who likes math and write their names down in boxes. When the teacher told us to start, he immediately turned to me and asked me a lot of questions about me. He kept asking me questions even though I had filled out multiple boxes on his paper and he should probably talk to other people so that he gets full credit for the assignment. After I signed 3/15 of his boxes I went to go talk to other people. Even then. after maybe 15 minutes, he found me and asked me another question. When he asked me this question, he got super close to me I would say he was maybe 5 inches away from me. This gave me butterflies. I ended up signing another of his boxes. Because of the way our schedules work for school, our Spanish class has 20 more minutes than any other class, so the teacher gives us free time. He spent this free time showing me silly memes on his phone. I am incredibly neurotic and so I can't tell if he is just being friendly or trying to flirt with me. It also doesn't help that I get anxious about having crushes because I am nonbinary and it's hard to find someone who is attracted to nonbinary people. Do y'all think that he likes me? How do I navigate this? How do I flirt?
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Painting on jeans
Arts & Crafts / by Enby15
Last post
 April 12th, 2021
...See more Howdy My mom gave me a pair of jeans she didnt want and I tailored them to fit me and I want to paint on them but I don't know what so leave suggestions please
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