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Emmie3
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My ex of 3 years just came out
Relationship Stress / by Emmie3
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 August 18th, 2019
...See more I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years. It was really tough, especially towards the end - it felt like a constant battle. He was always too busy for me, doubting the relationship, and making me feel unwanted and worthless. It's been about 4 years since our breakup and I'm in a new, healthy relationship - even so, I'm still getting over some of the hurt from that previous relationship. He recently came out as trans. Why is this so disturbing to me? I'm a fairly open-minded person, and an LGBTQ+ ally. But I find it hard to trust my current partner now, I have an irrational fear that he might be hiding something from me. I'm having so much trouble coming to terms with my ex's transition. Is this a normal feeling to have? Why do I feel like this is a reflection of myself? I don't know if I can trust my own judgement anymore. Please, I don't mean any offense to LGBTQ+ folks, and I'm sorry if this is offensive - I'm just looking for some advice.
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