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Ebirene
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Do I like him or just the attention?
Relationship Stress / by Ebirene
Last post
 February 11th, 2023
...See more *A LONG READ. I met this guy a couple of months ago and we've been talking since then. We talk on the phone almost everyday and he's actually cool to talk to. Initially, I started feeling like I'm falling for him, but I didn't tell him cause I wasn't sure if it's mutual. Note that I've always had a crush on him from the day we met cause he's cute and all that. The thing now is I've been blowing hot and cold about him. Idk if I like him or only like the fact that we talk almost all the time. This is my first "talking stage" in about 4 years, and I would actually admit that I enjoy the attention from him. He casually throws sweet words around me, but I laugh over them, not taking any serious cause he's not directly said HE LIKES ME. I just see it that we're both friends for now. Something about him that bothers me is that he sometimes makes me feel like I need to walk on eggshells around him. He sometimes takes offense at little jokes I make, and I've told him how it makes it feel. The last time it happened, he apologized after I had to explain a lot, and also he tried to be defensive before apologizing too. That's a bit worrisome for me and idk if I can deal with it. Above all, I enjoy spending time with him and talking to him. I also randomly think about him. Am I just scared of getting into something new? Advice please.
PTSD OR WHAT?😒
Relationship Stress / by Ebirene
Last post
 May 10th, 2020
...See more Hi guys. Is it just me or does anyone else have PTSD from being ghosted? I've been feeling some kind of way lately. My ex went ghost on me last year. I tried to reach out, tried to get closure, but nothing. I was deeply hurt and my self esteem was in the gutter for a while, permit me to use that expression. Long story short, it's been over a year and I've really tried to heal, at least I have to an extent. All of a sudden, this guy shows up every now and then, replying my random posts on Twitter, and I end up replying him as well. I'm such a clown. I actually muted him on my timeline for sanity sake, but he's not blocked on any of my social media. Whenever I see him in my mentions, I get this feeling of rage and at the same time, I tell myself to calm down, that I've moved on and all that. Should I just block him? I'm confused. Does anyone ever heal totally from ghosting?
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