DeborahUK
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Number of ratings112
Number of reviews40
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceNov 7, 2015
Last activeover 6 months ago
GenderFemale
PathStep 461
People helped186
Chats2,289
Group support chats85
Listener group chats27
Forum posts2,926
Forum upvotes9,180
Bio
My apologies, but I’m not taking on new chats at this present time.
Hello. Life has its ups and downs, and we all need a kind ear sometimes. I'm not here to judge, just to listen, encourage and support. And I like learning more about people, so welcome :)
I've completed the active and verified listener training on this site, but I've also been a lifelong listener, in both my working life, and with my family. I'm very open minded, and non judgemental, so please feel safe to come and hang out with me for a while.
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Feedback & Reviews
Very kind and receptive. A great listener who genuinely cares and wants you to continue to grow and learn about yourself and be kind to yourself and the world.
She is the most wonderful therapist I could’ve imagined.
Absolutely heartwarming, caring, wholesome and approachable. Thank you 💗
Incredibly helpful and kind. I brought a lot to the table, but they were still somehow able to deal with it and help me approach things with a constructive mindset
This particular chat is different than how I am used to as in this one DeborahUK and I have been 'talking' via offline messages. So the conversation goes along slower that way. But I am thankful because even in the waiting to hear from her ... when I do, she seems to understand me very well. And that alone is very encouraging.
Amazing listener. Kind, supportive, caring, one of a kind and with a sense of humour as well. Wonderful help
Deb is one of those listeners who really understand you and what you need to feel heard. She is kind and offers a calm and safe place in the storm that surrounds you in the moments of feeling lost❤️
Deb is one of the good ones. She truly cares and does so very lovingly.
Lovely lovely lady! Made my feel so much better about myself. Thank you so much.
great lady
She is great and has been very helpful. Love her playful spirit.
Wonderful! Caring! Insightful! Intelligent! THANK YOU!!
Debs was a great listener and was able to understand what I was trying to convey. She really helped me understand my thoughts from a different perspective.
Wonderful, caring listener. Very insightful, helpful.
She is so kind and empathetic. Very easy to talk with and so good at asking the right questions and saying the right things. It felt very natural and not like canned dialogue. She made me feel better already, and I feel she is someone I can lean on for the difficult times ahead of me.
Debs is a true gem. Empathetic and attentive, with the right balance of validation, clarifying questions, and nudges towards problem-solving.
DeborahUK is the best Listener I have experienced on 7Cups. Very kind, caring, good humoured. She is helpful, very professional and I feel heard and understood and that is everything.
DeborahUK is awesome.
Great listener, will like a second time
Best listener I have come across here. She is sensible, caring and non judgemental. Knew exactly the right thing to say and made me feel a lot better. Can't thank her enough and plan to keep in touch with her regularly. Thank you so much Deborah.
Very calm, sweet caring and just all around an A+ listener. I aspire to listen like this one.
She's the best Listener on this site. Period.
Really good listener. Made me feel better
Fantastic, many thanks for being so kind. you helped me to talk through my worries
I almost don't have the words for how grateful I am. The way she put things in such an understanding way made me feel like I wasn't alone. Like she got it. And I have some answers and truths i can hold on to now if it gets this dark again. Thank you.
The first listener I have felt really listened, was like talking to a friend and who I wanted to give 5 stars all around too! TWO THUMBS up for Debs!!!!
Debs is the sweetest and most attentive listener ever! I wish I knew her in real life!
Debs is an amazing listener. She left me feeling 100x better! She really can understand where you're coming from or at the very least empathize your situation, and help construct the bigger problems from whatever you're talking about. Debs is also incredibly nice, patient, and will reply to you in a timely manner :)
Truly lovely lady. So glad I spoke to her.
Fantastic session, very supportive and helpful!
Very thoughtful, an gave good insight into my situation.
Very kind and helpful, very professional. Is helping me deal with a very personal issue with sensitivity, kindness, and care. Asks good questions.
What an amazing listener, Intuitive, kind caring and understanding. The best! Thank you so much for being there for me tonight, you are a star!
She is a wonderful listener. Help us with all or problems
awesome listener snj
Wise, insightful and extremely understanding. Helped me go through a lot of confusion and pain, and I felt much more stable and validated at the end of the conversation. Would recommend.
She tries to understand her best with polite and kind questions.
I've had an helpful conversation with her, I feel more relaxed now.
Thank you
I've had an helpful conversation with her, I feel more relaxed now.
Thank you
I loved this conversation :) God Bless!
Such a nice person!
Wonderful listener! I actually felt heard...she's very kind knows exactly what to say...thank you so much!! Can't wait to talk again! Xxxx
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