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Dawnlit02
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I do not what to do i am stuck
Relationship Stress / by Dawnlit02
Last post
 January 23rd
...See more So in 2023 i met a girl and she was in a relationship with a guy since mid of 2023, Till we reached 2024 i was friendly with her and i was the first person in her entire life to whom she told about herself, her hobbies and about him being toxic and much more. Once she was fearing talking to me as he found out my messages so all that took place and then they broke up because he was too toxic and even didn't put efforts. I was in love with her at this point and she was very similar to me in every aspect. So after her breakup i didn't feel the appropriate time for pushing her towards another relationship with me. I gave her space and i provided an atmosphere for her to heal after a few months she was getting back to normal , she even discontinued her therapy because she was not feeling the need for it and it was the first time she was feeling better in herself and her face started to glow and she showed signs of love for me. Then he entered her life again in order to manipulate into giving him a second chance. He showed his deteriorating physical health as a weapon to manipulate and compell her. She hadn't received any kind of love since her childhood so seeing this and even improvements as she termed them , She decided to get back to him again and even her feelings for him rebounded.  Now, She thinks she can work it out with him and tells me about his improvements. Also he has a toxic friend circle and toxic in himself too even now but she terms it as just a weakness. Even in deteriorated physical health he went to meet her and begged that give me a second chance and make things fine. She said he met her and then went to hospital the next day evening i see a story of him and his group in a fair where there is lot of walking involved. Also he manipulated her by conviction that she mustn't cheat and even being with another guy is cheating. Also 10 days before she gave a second chance, He asked for her dis cord pass in order to delete their chats and to check if she is talking to another guy . 10 days later she calls this just an insecurity, now she calls his toxicity just a small weakness, I have tried every way of making her realize but it didn't work and i believe she will realize it by her own and i do not know what to do
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Is it natural to feel this way
Relationship Stress / by Dawnlit02
Last post
 January 20th
...See more I have been on good terms with a person prioritizing growth, trust and honesty. That person was not treated well in childhood and in previous relationships as well and now when she is feeling this kind of love for the first time and she feels resentment towards it. Is it natural to feel this kind of resentment ? How can I contribute more towards changing this and changing the perception of love as chaos for a person who has been hurt all her life
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