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DaniAleah156
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Just a 17 year old girl who likes anime,ramen, and cats:)

Recent forum posts
my online boyfriend again...update
Depression Support / by DaniAleah156
Last post
 June 5th
...See more My boyfriend and I got into a fight last night because he thought it was okay to fat shame individuals. I told him it was mean and no one should have that happen to them just because they weren't the ideal size. He doesn't like being told he's wrong so after about 15 minutes of hearing why it's okay to shame people, I still wasn't buying it so he leaves because he doesn't know how to discuss differences. He just tries to move on instead of solving the issue. He then told me that I was weak for caring about peoples feelings and I care too much about things. He even said that I don't know anything about life because I'm 17 and he's older. I honestly don't know if I was ever in the right anymore and maybe he is right and i'm too young. Am I in the wrong?
I'm new here
Newbie Hub / by DaniAleah156
Last post
 August 7th
...See more Hello, Im Danielle. Im a new member. Sometimes I feel lonely. Im scared to get to know new people because i have attachment issues and trust issues that clash against each other daily. i dont really know how to word it. Im not used to writing down my emotions like this...
Grayson, Anxiety, and My Boyfriend
Anxiety Support / by DaniAleah156
Last post
 June 5th
...See more I think im doing okay. I've just been nauseated for a few weeks now because of my anxiety. My cat just died and whenever i think about him i just become sick. Im also being forced to play the piano and trying to learn new songs also makes me nauseous. My online boyfriend helps me feel calm when im with him but i feel sick again once im alone. He doesnt care too much about my cat though...and he repeatedly talks about how much he loves his dog and it sometimes reminds me of my cat.
my online boyfriend...
Depression Support / by DaniAleah156
Last post
 May 27th
...See more This is an update on my boyfriend again. He's still acting normal for now but it's only because I haven't triggered him in any way. Fifty percent of the time I don't really say what needs to be said so he doesn't get mad. This results in a "perfect" relationship. Recently he got mad at his sister for treating him the way he treats me everyday. As much as i'd like to pity him, I can't. He's never apologized to me even when I pointed out his wrong doings but instead, I'd just get spammed with mad texts? Aren't I the one who's supposed to be upset? I have no idea who his doings somehow always reflect back on me. He thinks he's a "good" person and is "perfect". Also, "God loves him and hit the jackpot when making him" but he is one of the most selfish people I've ever met. He just can't see it
my online boyfriend update
Depression Support / by DaniAleah156
Last post
 May 27th
...See more my boyfriend and i are back together unfortunately. the funny thing is after i confronted him about how he hurt me he told me to apologize and move on?why am i apologizing? but anyways we're on good terms now and hes been acting normal other than not letting me talk to anyone besides him. i wasnt anyway because having more than one person to talk to overwhelms me. i hope it stay peaceful like this though. i dont see his age as a red flag anymore since he makes me happy. like sure im a minor but i wont be next year so thats that i guess...
my online boyfriend...(update)
Depression Support / by DaniAleah156
Last post
 June 6th
...See more I thought i would finally lose him that day. He came back though like I wished he would. He's been acting more normal since i tried to break up with him so it looks like things are looking up from here.him being 34 and me being 17 isnt really a red flag for me anymore since he makes me happy. Im happy but i know i shouldnt be. I just hope he stays this way. The only issue i see with him now is how he doesnt want me talking to anyones besides him which i wasnt anyway because having more than one person to talk to overwhelms me. so he's normal even for him. i hope it stays this way.
my online boyfriend...
Depression Support / by DaniAleah156
Last post
 May 20th
...See more Tw: Relationship Abuse Ill start this by saying ive been really lonely over the years being home schooled and all. I hardly ever leave the house so i turned to an online chatroom to meet new people. I met a 34 year old there and i looked past his age because i felt like he understood me. I was 16 and turned 17 a week later. Its been 3 months. He's been getting more toxic even to where he love bombs me whenever he sense me about to break up with him. I tried again today and he told me how much he loved me. When I say he's getting more toxic, he says he's nicer to me than other but but sometimes his mask breaks and it shows me just how mean he is. I told him to be nice to my friend(she's slow btw), not to call me *** bc he kept telling me i was when we first met. Im not even ***. He thinks he's super IQ so everyone looks dumb to him. Then he said i was controlling and i told him i shouldnt have even had to point these errors out to him if he had any sense but he just brushes it off and changed the subject.  i dont know what to do at this point. He's really stressing me out
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