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D86
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PathStep 5 Compassion hearts94 Forum posts18 Forum upvotes37 Current upvotes37 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2024 Member sinceNovember 27, 2023
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30s male RDU NC USA

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I hate what my life has become
Depression Support / by D86
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more I have no friends locally. I’m unbelievably lonely. I can’t get any decent jobs. I don’t know what to do anymore. I can’t get anything to improve my situation. My family doesn’t seem to care and just use me for favors because I’m always available because of not having a job or friends. What can I do at this point? I feel like I’ve tried everything available and have no luck. I feel like my life is wasting away
Impossible Finding work
Work & Career / by D86
Last post
 June 12th
...See more I’ve been applying for all kinds of jobs for over 2 years. I’ve had a total 3 interviews from the 1000s of jobs I’ve applied for. I don’t know What to do anymore. It’s so depressing. I don’t know what else to do anymore. I’ve had multiple professionals look at and rework my resume but no different results. I feel like I’m wasting my time applying because I get no responses. I might as well just throw my resume in the garbage and save the time. I have no idea what to do. I feel like giving up but I too many bills and have accumulated so much debt. Nobody I know has had this much difficulty just getting interviews
I hate my life
35 & Over Community / by D86
Last post
 May 7th
...See more I have no friends to hang out with, no job, my family just makes me feel worse except my mom. I don’t know what to do to improve my situation, I can’t even get a job that will cover bills
Why can I not trust anyone anymore
Depression Support / by D86
Last post
 May 4th
...See more i recently broke my hand and I told one friend. I said specifically not to tell 1 individual and he proceeded to tell him anyway. Now I have to hear dumb jokes about it from the other individual which is why I said not tell him. When I asked him why did you tell him he said “I didn’t” but turns out he did and proceeded to tell me “why are you making a big deal out of nothing?” I said just because you don’t feel it’s a big deal doesn’t mean I don’t, but he doesn’t seem to care. I feel like I have nobody to trust anymore
What do single people do to make friends ?
35 & Over Community / by D86
Last post
 April 24th
...See more I haven’t been able to make a single real friend since moving here about eight years ago. Only “friends“ made his work friends and as soon as I got let go or whatever from the job I never hear from them again.
I have no friends where I live
Friendship Support / by D86
Last post
 April 10th
...See more I’ve lived here for 8 years now and haven’t met anyone I would call a true friend here. I’ve hung out with my brother and his friends but they are far from the kind of people I would like to hang out with. Covid obviously didn’t help the situation either. I’ve considered moving somewhere else but as you can see from my other posts I can’t get anywhere to hire me so I have 0 money left and a mound of debt because of it. Where can I make friends as an adult? Any “friendships” I’ve made through work basically end with the job. I feel hopeless in every aspect of my life
Can’t get work
Depression Support / by D86
Last post
 March 29th
...See more I’ve been out of work since mid Covid being let go from my job after being in the hospital. I can’t get any job offers since except physical labor jobs I can’t do or the waste of time life insurance jobs that go straight into the spam folder. I can’t figure why. I did a data analytics bootcamp which turned out to be a huge waste of time and money because I got 0 interest from any of the 1000s of applications I’ve put in since. It was over $10k and essentially got nothing out of it. I don’t know what to do from here 😞
I changed medication
Depression Support / by D86
Last post
 March 25th
...See more I had gone to my primary doctor for the first time in a couple years (money+insurance issues) we talked about my antidepressant medication. He suggested switching from Lexapro to Wellbutrin. I have to say I think I’m feeling much better on the Wellbutrin. I don’t seem to get any of the prostate issues I was getting with the Lexapro anymore, which was why he suggested switch in the first place. I’m feeling much better than on the Lexapro. I honestly have been wondering if it was making my symptoms worse at times. I’m feeling more like my normal self like I was prior to all the stuff happening that caused the depression. Just need to get a job offer so I can have an income again so I don’t have to worry about bills anymore and I think I’ll be doing much better. Only real drawback I’ve noticed from the Wellbutrin is premature ejaculation which is the opposite of the Lexapro
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