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Capricorngirl27
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Should I let it pass?
Relationship Stress / by Capricorngirl27
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March 18th, 2020
...See more Heyyy so I was very confused and this is also affecting my emotions so I thought I'd ask here what people think... I saw this person at a wedding function. First I thought he was married so I didn't do anything but in another function, I got to know he wasn't. I am super crushing on him and my friend even offered to start a casual conversation which I denied because I feel awkward and embarrassed in front of people. But now I think I should not have. its been a while and I'm trying to think otherwise but the whole attraction is not going. I'm not able to focus on anything and it's weird because I didn't even speak to him. I wanted to go ahead and add him on social media but I have not spoken to him (and he's only seen me) so will that be strange for him? He's a guy and around 27-28 so I'm not sure how guys around that think if people end up adding them randomly on social media... I keep thinking if I add him he would think I'm creepy enough to find him on social media or that he's not accept, or my self-respect will be sort of damaged by making the first move. I think a lot so it's a lot of overthinking so I was hoping someone can help me. Or maybe I should push my self until it passes away and not do anything about it. I have not dated in years and I am not sure if I'm looking for it either but my thoughts are making me feel 10k different emotions like suddenly I get really upset and sad and it's very frustrating. I hope I can get some perspective here.
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