I don't have schooled training on your problems. I have life training. Think of me as your grandfather or grandpa. I am old enough that I have loads of my own problems that I have overcome. I also have had a daughter and a son so I have dealt with their problems. I now have 7 grandchildren from one to 18 so I am current with ongoing situations. I do enjoy life very much and I have a wonderful supportive wife of 17 years. But I was married before and divorced so I have gone through that situation. As a grandpa, I won't sugar coat, it is what it is. Life is tough sometimes, really though. But sometimes you need a sounding board, a bit of advice, maybe even a push. I'm not cold blooded, I have cried buckets, but I am practical. I want you to enjoy life.