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ByeByeBirdie22
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PathStep 9 Compassion hearts32 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes8 Current upvotes8 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2021 Member sinceOctober 26, 2021
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First Breakup
Relationship Stress / by ByeByeBirdie22
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October 30th, 2021
...See more My partner of almost 2 years broke up with me this week. They were very kind, said I was perfect and our relationship had been worth every minute, but they had realized their feelings for me were platonic. I am finding it hard to do just about anything--eat, sleep, work, socialize. I'm just absolutely heartbroken.
Breakups and Disability
Disability Support / by ByeByeBirdie22
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October 29th, 2021
...See more I am going through my first breakup and it's been really difficult, not only because I loved my partner very much, but also because of what they represented for me. I am queer, disabled, and somewhat asexual, and I had always thought those things would make it near impossible to find love. When I found my (now ex) partner, I felt so relieved that my search was over. They were incredibly understanding of my disability and all the other nuances of my identities. Now I feel adrift again in a world that makes it so hard for people like me to find love, connection, and understanding.
First Breakup
Anxiety Support / by ByeByeBirdie22
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October 30th, 2021
...See more I'm 22 and going through my first breakup with my partner of about 1.5 years. I naively thought we could be together forever, or at least a very long time, and the breakup came as a surprise. They were very nice about it, it was amicable, but it was not at all mutual. It feels like every minute I'm reminded of another thing that I miss about them or had planned to do with them. Big things like celebrating Christmas together, meeting their friends from high school, watching a Marvel movie we had been anticipating. Little things like the smell of their hair, a kiss on the cheek, them singing love songs to me. I don't know when I'll be able to live my life without constantly being bombarded by memories.
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