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Bossy1
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Time doesn't help.
Trauma Support / by Bossy1
Last post
 September 21st, 2023
...See more I was attacked multiple times by the same person for the course of a two year period back in 2014&2015. I've always heard "time heals". It's been almost 20 years since it started and nothing was "healed". I admit I was able to push it off my brain as a main thought but when a certain song comes on or I hear his name evene when its someone else completely I have this feeling that rushes over me and everthing comes flooding back. I've worked really hard to move on and to replace those memories with happier ones from my current place in life. But it is not truly "healed" and it honestly feels like it never will be.
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Chronic Pain Survivors
Disability Support / by Bossy1
Last post
 January 8th, 2023
...See more I'm going through my chronic illness alone. Just curious to see if anyone else gets it..
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I could have stooped a predator.
Trauma Support / by Bossy1
Last post
 December 10th, 2021
...See more I just found out that the grown man whom i was dating as a teenager has been convicted of raping another teenage girl. It was years ago when we were together and i know now that what conspired was him grooming me. But since he never hurt me or forced me to do anything, back then i thought as long as i aggreed to everything that happened it was okay.. Yet now that i know that he has hurt somoene else and that i was clearly apart of a pattern i just cant turn my brain off to thinking that if i had spoken up at the time then the girls that got hurt after me wouldn't have gotten hurt. I know it isn't fair to put the responsibility of his actions on myself but im really struggling with the fact that i could have done something to help the girls after me.
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