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BlueSkies1021
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Currently out of the country and UNABLE to take chats! Thanks for understanding :)
Number of ratings25 Number of reviews20 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceNov 6, 2022 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 22,850 People helped64 Chats308 Group support chats23 Listener group chats33 Forum posts239 Forum upvotes446
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NOTE: Members --- Feel free to leave messages even when my status bubble is orange (meaning busy) or red (meaning inactive)! I will respond when I can, as soon as possible! Please don't think I forgot about you or ignored you if I don't respond right away. I reply to every message that comes in my inbox whenever I have the chance to!!! :) But in case I am unable to get to you right away and you urgently need help, please Browse Listeners or use a Self Help Guide with these blue links here! And as for my fellow listeners --- If you need resources or help with chatting, please see this link for the master list of listener resources.

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I am a member of the VERIFIER'S TEAM, so fellow listeners --- if you would like to request a mock chat to become Verified, please read this post thoroughly, check if you meet all the requirements, and message me to schedule a mock chat to try to get recognized for your high-quality active listening and get yourselves that blue Verified check bubble and badge!

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Hello everyone! I am a Verified Listener here at 7 Cups! My name is Blue, pronouns she/her! (I also like the name Sky; you guys can pick which one you call me.) :D I am a person with a deep compassion and understanding for people and I will not be judgmental towards you for any of your issues. I love listening to people and check in with this site every day, so I will do my best to respond to your messages as quickly as I can. During the weekdays I might be a bit slow to respond, though, because I'm still in school and get overloaded with work a lot. But really, don't feel guilty venting to me—I WANT to be here! :) I have a lot of experience with mental health and listening to people about their struggles, although if your problems are outside of my ability to help (suicide, self harm, sexual harassment/assault, substance abuse, drug addiction, domestic violence, trauma from war, injuries, diseases, etc.), please seek professional help or paid therapy with the resources in these links, as I am not trained or equipped to handle these things as a 17-year-old kid. As much as I would really, truly love to be here for all you guys through anything, I really can't do anything about threats to your safety. Those things should be referred to the authorities or a specialist. But otherwise, I am here for everyone, regardless of race, gender, religion, sexuality, relationship status, familial situation, etc. and feel free to talk to me like you would close friend. You deserve help, love, appreciation, and validation; I will do everything in my power to provide you with support! :)

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A bit about me: My birthday is October 21st (yay Libras!), my personality type is INFJ, and I was born in the Year of the Dog (2006)! My favorite color is blue (you probably guessed, haha), my favorite seasons are fall and summer, and my favorite food is Hawaiian Poké bowl. I'm Chinese-American, proud to be so, and have a lot of experience with managing and appreciating cultural identity. I think I'm somewhere on the ace spectrum (probably demisexual and demiromantic), but I don't really care about labels that much, so you can just call me "ace" or "queer" or whatever; I just want to be myself. :) Music is my favorite thing, like, ever; I play flute, viola, sing in a choir, am in a marching band, and love musical theater. I love reading books, particularly YA fantasy, sci-fi, realistic fiction, and LGBTQ+ stories. My top 4...well, technically 5...favorite books are "You've Reached Sam" by Dustin Thao, "They Both Die At The End" by Adam Silvera, "These Violent Delights" (and its sequel, "Our Violent Ends") by my literal queen Chloe Gong, and "Loveless" by Alice Oseman, which I HIGHLY recommend to everyone because they are just so meaningful and explore human connections so deeply. I write my own stories and draw sometimes, although they really aren't that great at all, haha. When I graduate high school, I want to go to medical school (hopefully, haha) to become a reproductive endocrinologist so I can help families! :) I'm also a huge fan of Marvel, My Hero Academia, Lord of the Rings, Top Gun, Taylor Swift, The Piano Guys, Alan Walker, and '80s / '90s Chinese songs (I get that from my amazing mom, haha)! :D

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APPRECIATE A PERSON ON 7 CUPS WHO HAS GIVEN YOU A GOOD EXPERIENCE HERE! <3

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MY BEST FRIENDS ON 7 CUPS OF TEA WHO I LOVE AND APPRECIATE WITH ALL MY HEART:

@kosikima -- truly a legit angel sent from heaven, so understanding and warm-hearted

@mushro0m -- a friend that's such a joy to talk to, always accepting and there for me

@amiableBunny4016 -- hardworking and selfless, overcomes obstacles like a warrior

@inventiveMango9097 -- so strong and resilient, finds happiness even when it's dark

@FaithfulZareia -- the best, sweetest listener I know, always cheers me up when I'm down

Recent forum posts
Members...please know that it is not okay to sext listeners. Thanks!
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by BlueSkies1021
Last post
April 26th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone! This is just going out as a general PSA, but I and many listeners I have spoken to have attested to having been inappropriately messaged by members, and it needs to be understood that we are here to help you and be here for you in the face of struggle -- not to endure wildly discomforting messaging that crosses our boundaries. 7 Cups is a beautiful, welcoming community, and we all should work together to keep it as comfortable and appropriate for everyone as possible. Remember that listeners are people, too, and we deserve to be respected and to not be talked to about things we are not okay with. Thank you for reading this, and have an amazing day!
Happy Lunar New Year!
Young People of Color / by BlueSkies1021
Last post
February 11th, 2023
...See more Wishing all who celebrate a healthy, prosperous, and happy year of the rabbit! Be proud of your cultural identities and take some time to learn about the Lunar New Year holiday today if you're interested to understand and appreciate the experiences of others! Here's a link to an article about celebrating the Lunar New Year all over the world! https://case.edu/international/programs-and-events/lunar-new-year [https://case.edu/international/programs-and-events/lunar-new-year]
You are valid, no matter what society tells you
General Support / by BlueSkies1021
Last post
December 28th, 2022
...See more Hello lovely community friends! I hope everyone had a great holiday! I just wanted to put it out there and remind all of you that no matter what, your identities are wonderful just the way you are. With so many stereotypes in the world, we often feel pressure to be a certain way or feel a need to smash the restrictive norms and build a better and more validating future for everyone. Both are completely valid feelings to have. "Norms" can be harmful for many people, but also part of the identities of many others. It doesn't matter if you conform or do not conform to certain stereotypes, because keep in mind that any trait about you is only one aspect of your vast, expansive, complex, and extraordinary identity. Just because you are seen as a basic cliche by some people in the world does not mean that you are a boring person that perpetuates stereotypes, and just because you are different from some people in the world does not mean you're weird or any less deserving of love, acceptance, and appreciation as anyone else. ALL of you have a right to your emotions, feelings, likes, dislikes, and personality traits. No matter how you identify or who you are, you are beautiful and valid. There is so much pressure to act like others or be unique that we often forget that we are all living for ourselves, not the pleasure of other people. Let's all embrace one another - our similarities and differences - and make this next year a great one, full of love and understanding for all.
Avatar: The Way of Water has changed my life
Hobby Zone / by BlueSkies1021
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April 13th, 2023
...See more Do you guys know that feeling where you're so happy something exists that you just can't stop thinking about how lucky you are to have experienced it? That's me with the new Avatar movie right now. In an instant, I was transported to a beautiful world that taught me so many life lessons and showed me scenery more wonderful than I could have ever imagined. I know this must sound so cliche, but the story gave me so much hope and I really learned a lot from the events and characters in the film. How do you guys feel about Avatar: The Way of Water?
Who is your comfort character?
Positivity & Gratitude / by BlueSkies1021
Last post
November 27th, 2022
...See more We all have that book, movie, TV show, etc. character that always makes us happy or who we really relate to! Who is yours? :)
Fandom Time
Hobby Zone / by BlueSkies1021
Last post
November 22nd, 2022
...See more Hey hobby zoners! Let's get to know you with some fandom-related questions! Answer as many as you would like :D 1) What is your Hogwarts House? (Mine is Hufflepuff) 2) What color would your lightsaber be if you were a Jedi? (For me, it would be blue...duh XD) 3) Team Gale or Team Peeta? (Honestly, I don't know. I've always been torn about this one." 4) Favorite female Avenger? (Wanda. My queen. I love her.) 5) Favorite DC villain? (Hmmm...I probably have to say Orm Marius.) 6) Favorite Disney princess? (Mulan. No question about it.) 7) Favorite Shadowhunters ship? (MALEC. I LOVE MALEC SO MUCH.) 8) Best mystery book/TV show/movie? (For me, it has to be Knives Out. That movie had me on the edge of my seat!!!) 9) Favorite Shakespeare play? (MIDSUMMER NIGHT'S DREAM ALL THE WAY!) 10) Best cartoon/animated show character? (Rayla from The Dragon Prince. Is. My. Goddess.)
Feedback & Reviews
Is is the nicest listener I've ever encountered on this app and there are alot of nice people here and this person is extremely understanding
she is the best!! I'm so glad i found her here
Very helpful, with all my LGBTQ issues
I swear she is the best person I know❤️. She is no judgy and listens to you carefully. She's so kind, I love her so much!!!❤️🥀
She’s literally the best. She helped me get through everything when I felt helpless and emotionally drained. Not even words can describe how amazing she is❤️
Super nice and directly welcomed me :)
They are great
Very good listener, gets straight to the point, and is very attentive!
I came on this website looking for someone whop could be as long term listener/friend and I am so glad I found sky! Such a amazing, caring person who is willing to be there for you whenever you need someone to talk to and will talk about anything that's bothering you or just talk in general is you need some company.
Words can't be enought to describe how helpful this shecan be :). She is the kindest and the most supportive person I met on here. And that from the beginning of our chat. She is a perfect listener on LGBTQ+ issues (in general too obviously)and replies as fast as she can, something wich makes you to feel that she actually listens to what you say. I am really very immpressed! I am so blessed for having the chance to communicate with here and if you, I am sure you will feel like the same. Thank yoiu again for your help :D you are perfect
I am really impressed! Got no words to describe how helpful anderstandable and supportive this person is
amazing listener, really helped
Blue Skies politely guided me to areas where i could receive better help, and we bonded over a love for music :D
Fast responses and super kind and caring, totally recommend
Really a good listener 🤍
she's a great listener!!
more than great
Sky is a good listener. I feel relaxing when I'm taliking with sky. :D
Exactly what I needed, truly an amazing person
she's really amazing not even 5 stars can describe her she deserves more
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