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BlueCicada
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Number of ratings73 Number of reviews23 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 15, 2016 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 110 People helped231 Chats645 Listener group chats2 Forum posts2
Bio

Everyone has a story...

Hi, I'm BlueCicada. I offer a caring ear and safe place to vent. I listen in a non-judgemental and open-minded way. Be yourself. Our lives may be different, but I hope my experiences will help me be understanding.

I have knowledge of: Anxiety Disorder, Depression, LGBTQ+, Different relationship styles such a open, poly, monogamous, affairs and more. I believe that I am here to listen to you, not judge or tell you what my beliefs say you should do. YOU are the best person to make decisions for yourself. There are many paths and I'm here to listen, not judge.

I've seen good times and some tough times. I've known people who have chosen a variety of lifestyles. I think this helps me to relate to people in different situations. I don't claim to know how you feel, but I try my best to hear and understand you.


I like to learn so I have many hobbies and fun activities that I've tried. I enjoy solving complex social problems, helping people, online gaming and art. I have more art supplies than I'll ever use and most people see me as more logical than artistic. They'll never know.  I have a good life with my own struggles, but overall, I'm very fortunate. I'm trying to make the world a better place but I don't feel the need to save everyone (anymore). I'll just do my little part over here. 

Feedback & Reviews
Very kind
Great listener. Very helpful and recommendeded great coping strategies.
He’s Kind and warm
They really helped me work out my problem and showed me angles I didn’t think about. I needed an unbiased opinion and I’m so fortunate that that was exactly what I got, along with a kind and casual conversation that showed interest and thought, not just one person talking. Thank you bluecicada!!
she is kind and thoughtful
She’s kind and warm
a wonderful person with a heart of gold
Amazing listener! Really empathetic and able to understand you. Also, very supportive considering "logical" choices you find emotionally difficult to make.
courteous, supportive, and kind. i think she actually listened to me and listened well!!!!!
caring and capable of handling complex issues
Good
great listener
Calmed me down when I was losing the ability to think clearly. Thank you so much, BC. I'm a perfectionist and BC helped me think clearly about how to approach an obstacle, ultimately tackling my fear of failure
Excellent listener very lovely and carring
Yay!
Understanding and quick response
Best listener. Really understands you and shows they care.
Thank you it has been helpful to talk!
I am really really happy with my talk with BlueCicada. They were very insightful, patient, wise, and not afraid to ask the hard questions or say the critical things. I learned a lot and have a couple of things to think about. Thank you!
Two words : Contingency Logic.

A great source for head clearing and reasoning. cheers.
good
GOOD
great guy. helped me come to my own conclusions. would recommend.
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