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I wish I enjoyed sex
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by BlueBetta
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 April 17th, 2019
...See more I've known I'm asexual for a long time, but it didn't really become a problem until recently since I just got married. I've never tried it with anyone else, and I know my husband hasn't either. So far it's been okay, but it's not really comfortable. I know it's not going to be the easiest thing early on. But he always talks about how it feels really good for him, and it makes me upset that I don't feel the same way. He knows and has assured me that it's okay, and he loves me for me even if we don't have sex much. He wants to find things about it that I enjoy too, but I don't even know if I can enjoy it. We've been married less than a month, and this is already very frustrating for me. I'm worried about how things are going to go later.
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