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BenittaJ
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Miss my cats
Positivity & Gratitude / by BenittaJ
Last post
 September 27th
...See more Hello everyone reading my post thankyou 🙏 💓 Im a dog person! We had only dogs recently in 2023 March I lost my last dog Dolly' we dint get any dog after tat.  A stray cat , we named her Angel littered in my house. In the month of September 2023' Till 2month we dint see them because she had her kittens in the loft.  When they were three months+ she started to bringing them to us.  We named then Opal (Girl) Twinkle (boy) Lavie (girl)  From that date we got quite along Twinkle - Smart but funk Opal - Social n brave  Love - very Scared and playful  We let them go out of our house to our garden. They love to roam in the nature.  Meanwhile Angel littered again this time two kittens. We started getting Tom cats problem' Two Tom cats namely Patrick, Tom and a black cat. Started to tackle our girl cats !!! We dint want them to get pregnant cuz they might litter in our house again. We already have neighbours who Hates cats and poison them !  So we kept them inside the house for like 4months. We have a litter box but still u know they *** anywhere n message the house. House started to stink ! We had a messed house and it was hard for us. We can't go anywhere because of them scared they ll try to go outside and something bad might happen... Traffic - Tom cats - neighbours !!! We had a tough time. But still they were cute white bums. Playing about all day n night mostly my back aches because of no sleep!!! We also planned to do a surgery for the girl but the vet said it's a painful process for the cats we can't handle that! We then found a home for the babies we caught them. But lavie bit me n ran away into our house from the vehicle.  So I coudn't go to leave them mum and sis went two cats first. Then came back and took the third cat love.  Now all three are in their house. My sisters colleagues house, But I'm not satisfied with their house. Their house is not a close type to feed them time to time, not much caring people, i don't know if they will even buy cat food for them.  U c the cats should be in their house with the doors windows locked for atleast a week , for them to get attached to the house n people mainly to understand these people will feed them. Correct right!! But they asked mum n sis to open n let them go !  This is y I'm scared 😞 u c it's getting dark they are alone they're out no food will they come to this house if hungry ? I d k they dint eat morning, they will be hungry right! I have lots of questions in my mind 🥺😑😞  Im sad guys. There were with us for almost 10 months!
My birthday
Positivity & Gratitude / by BenittaJ
Last post
 June 22nd
...See more Hello everyone. Nice to meet y'all.. Tomorrow is my bday ie (19th June) im gonna be 28 tomo yaaahoooo!!!!! @Iampapaya @patienceimpatient @spongebobishappy help me in tags cuz most of the people i love are changing their usernames and I'm confused. 
Idk
Reading & Writing / by BenittaJ
Last post
 February 5th
...See more Hiya... I really don't know what I'm feeling rn. Today is my neighbour kid's bday, she's came home n gave us some sweets, well we have to give her something ryt.  I gave her a book it's encyclopedia of our universe, a good book to read and treasure.  So many gave me books, i remember I was so happy whenever I received a book, but this is my first time I'm giving (away) a book. I feel something idk how to explain it.  She took the book, held it towards her chest n jumped n ran home. And I was smiling behind my mum, (I gave it to my mum to give her) and i hardly saw her face I was focusing on the book... How I'd explain how I felt, As if my frnd left me without a hug. I kept blinking so tat i don't become emotional.. I could have gave her something else but, A book is a great gift, she's just 10 it curious age, this book will help her gain more knowledge and maybe encourage her to read more books. Maybe I'll be a part of her reading journey. At the same time, Im very possesive with my books, don't share my books u can read and return, And also I don't read the book twice. But i dust my books every day. I keep on looking at them now n then. I kinda feel nice when I see my books.  So instead of the book hatching eggs in my bookshelf I just wanted to give her it. Although I never spoke to tat girl, giving the book to completely unknown I don't know how she will take care of the book... This book was given to me by my manager, i remember I was so happy to receive it... But today Although I'm not feeling very good i understand i shouldn't be feeling this way after gifting someone... Idk guys 
I wanna deactivate my 7cups account😔
Anxiety Support / by BenittaJ
Last post
 February 8th
...See more I want to tell you something, i really feel down because of 7cups there weren't people who helped me when I had a query/ problem with 7cups badges. There are sugar coating people who diverted my mind from the problem.  It's starts with,, I saw a user with mega member badge in the group room, so i asked them about the badge and they said the details tat i should do the LDP program. My next step was I joined the program. I completed my LDP program in the month of Feb 2023,  As I'm a member not listener, I selected mega member role. But in the month of September/November i found out tat my mega member badge wasn't visible to anyone.  I contacted so many people in 7cups regarding this issue.  Some of my questions which I asked them was: Why isn't my badge not visible? How come forum supporter, sharing circle host, community leader, community mentor....... All these badges visible and mega member alone not visible? They are recognised for their actions, and my hardwork my time I put into this program all gone in vain?  But none helped me. Seriously not one are helping they're just sugar coating, and I'm falling for it.  I wanted to be a proud mega member. But maybe 7cups wants me to be a useless member. Maybe I'm not gifted to be happy with something i really wanted, even if it's just as simple as a badge- I'm not allowed to enjoy the recognition. This badge issue is making me more stressed. I started crying, I even tried to console myself your crying for a lousy badge. But i really like it and wanted to see it under my name. Since none of them are helping out, I have made up my mind to deactivate my 7cups account. I come here to talk to people about my personal issues but dealing with this badge is another stressful issues. Yes it's hard but everyday I keep asking someone about this problem and no one responds properly. So soon I'll no more be here. 😔 I'll miss my friends here.. Thanks to everyone for not helping me.
Need image editing Help !!!!
Around the World / by BenittaJ
Last post
 December 27th, 2023
...See more Hello, Thanks for checking my post, I need help in editing this picture, there was no light while I clicked this picture and i dint want to use flash as it might be harmful for his eyes.  I can't take another pic, because this cat died in a road accident, sadly this is the only pic i have of him ☹️. He isn't my cat he's a stray cat. I have the habit of framing my lost pets pics I want to frame this cat's picture too because this is the first cat I touched, and he's the first cat who allowed me to touch/pet/play/ fuss him I'm actually a dog person never been or touched cats. He's close to my heart. Please help me in brightening this picture 🙏. Let me introduce him to you he's LEO.   
Do you have any advices for a Stranger?
Mindfulness Center / by BenittaJ
Last post
 February 27th
...See more Advices can either be on life/ love / finance/ career/ parenting... Etc
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