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Hey there. Welcome to the world of listening. I hope you will come out as one of best listeners. Best of luck 🤞
Number of ratings31 Number of reviews24 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Hindi, Punjabi, Saraiki, Urdu Listener sinceSep 24, 2023 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 128 People helped168 Chats541 Group support chats32 Listener group chats7 Forum posts50 Forum upvotes90
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Not available for casual conversations here


My Mentor @Ranaeil 


If I speak better, it might be because I'm a good listener

We can't do it ourselves then together we can. Let's make our life better.

I would like to talk about:

Depression, Managing emotions, Family stress, Social anxiety, Loneliness, Student life issues, Exercise motivation, Relationship stress, Breakup, Women issues, Addiction, Alcohol/drug abuse, Domestic violence, General mental health, Anxiety, Bullying.

Please avoid any other topics. It might be triggering also I might not be able to listen.

You can try finding a new listener here https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Thanks

It's better if you reach me 

⭐after reading this...⭐

About me:  I'm a Male, INTP, Type A, Writer, Poet, Single, Never married. . I have no intentions of getting married 😃...  You don't need anything more than that to know... Just keep it simple please. No more personal questions..


🌛Important note about conversation🌜

I, welcome everyone who wants to talk about anything that's bothering them or making them happy.

But

Please note that here, on 7Cups, rules are for everyone. Not just members only or listeners...A conversation have to be within limits that are set. We can talk. Either I'll be listening you or we can talk about random stuff... So let's call it formal and the other, casual...

For casual it's something I'm not comfortable with. My role here is, a Listener. So it must be topic oriented. Something that gives you happiness or bothers you. You can share about it. Normally a casual conversation starts with intro... And that means revealing identity and anonymity everyone wants here.. so it's best you reach me with something to discuss, without asking my personal info

For formal you can try to send me message and wait... if I'm not already listening someone I'll get to you faster... But again there are limits within those you can express your feelings.


I have got some experience in life and managed to be here so I thank all who helped me in crises. I'm willing to payback by being around you...


Please don't expect me to give you any advice. Because

  • It's a big responsibility.
  • I might not be that wise.
  • I can't know all of things and calculate what's best for you. If you tell me everything about you, there is no point of being anonymous just for an advice.

Being anonymous doesn't give you any right to be dishonest. It actually makes it easy for you to be honest about how you feel. Or you can take it as test 




Recent forum posts
Everyone is different. (Be Unique)
Poetry / by BeingHuman90s
Last post
October 30th
...See more Poet: Allama Iqbal Date/Year/Era: 1907 اوروں کا ہے پیام اور ، میرا پیام اور ہے عشق کے درد مند کا طرزِ کلام اور ہے Auron Ka Hai Payam Aur, Mera Payam Aur Hai Ishq Ke Dardmand Ka Tarz-e-Kalaam Aur Hai English The message of others is different, my message is different The style of address of the one afflicted with Love is different طائرِ زیر دام کے نالے تو سن چکے ہو تم یہ بھی سنو کہ نالہء طائرِ بام اور ہے Taair-e-Zair-e-Daam Ke Naale Tu Sun Chukke Ho Tum Ye Bhi Suno Ke Nala-e-Tair-e-Baam Aur Hai English You have heard the laments of the bird under the net Also listen to the laments of the bird on the roof tops which are different
What to read? How to read?
Reading & Writing / by BeingHuman90s
Last post
May 28th
...See more Read whatever you like but remember that it will add some changes in your thoughts... Even if you think it doesn't do anything but it will.... Read slowly... It must take same time as if you were writing that... That's how you will absorb it and feel what writer actually felt while wrote that Happy reading...
Urdu poetry (with translation)
Poetry / by BeingHuman90s
Last post
June 21st
...See more By Mirza Ghalib Topic: Problems we face in our lifetime... He says... Runj se khugar hua insaan to mit jaata hai runj Mushkilein mujh par padi itni ke aasaan ho gayi English translation: When sorrow brims over greatly, then the sorrows cease;  My woes weighed on me so much that my burdens eased
Language.....
Poetry / by BeingHuman90s
Last post
May 13th
...See more Hello everyone.... As we all come from different regions and have different national languages. I want to know if it's ok for you to read me write in my language? I write myself, for a long time now .. but I write in Urdu... Poetry in Urdu is special because it contains words that describe emotions deeply.... I'll be writing some famous poems/ghazals from other poets too... Let me know about your views about poetry in Urdu... I'll appreciate your participation in this regard. Thanks
Is it depression?
Depression Support / by BeingHuman90s
Last post
June 4th
...See more 𝐼𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑙𝑜𝑤 𝑜𝑟 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑖𝑠𝑠𝑢𝑒𝑠 𝑟𝑒𝑔𝑎𝑟𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑎𝑙 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑡ℎ.. 𝐹𝑖𝑟𝑠𝑡 𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑖𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑠... 𝗗𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻: Depression refers to an experience where you feel down most of the time which is called “low mood” and you have also lost interest in things you usually enjoy. You may also have changes in your sleep, appetite, feel guilty, de-motivated and generally withdraw from others. 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀: Stress is usually characterized by a sense of feeling overwhelmed. This feeling may be due to your coping capacity being over-stretched or having been under pressure for too long. Some stress can help us to perform our day to day functions, too much stress leaves us “distressed” and often exhausted. 𝗔𝗻𝘅𝗶𝗲𝘁𝘆: Anxiety is a sense of fear or dread that something terrible is going to happen. Anxiety can be general or specific to a place, social situation or thing (phobia)
Stress/Anxiety/Depression
Anxiety Support / by BeingHuman90s
Last post
May 14th
...See more Nowadays, many people are living fast lifestyle and it's causing stress and sometimes anxiety.  Here are some ideas which may help decrease stress and anxiety: 1 𝐃𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐞 2 𝐄𝐱𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐞 3 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐠𝐚 4 𝐋𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐜 5 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 6 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐬𝐥𝐞𝐞𝐩 7 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐩𝐡𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 8 𝐀𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 9 𝐋𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐡𝐨𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 (𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠) 10 𝐓𝐫𝐲 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 11 𝐒𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐟𝐟 (𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐮𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟) 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞 12 𝐔𝐬𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐡𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬 13 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 14 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 I hope you will start feeling better.
Feedback & Reviews
Very good listener. Caring and kind
Very good and cooperative listener!💖💖
Thanks for encouraging me to talk
Straightforward and easy to talk to. Very understanding and attentive. Helped narrow things down.
he was very willing to listen while also engaging with me and not judging
Excellent listener and understanding
Good listener
Cool and wise lash experienced
Did understand me very well and was helpful
He's a nice listener
Listenned and talked about my issue without judgment. Nice experience.
Understood what I was feeling and made me feel better. Have logical reasoning when I’m thinking emotionally
The best listener I've ever had, every time I feel down I contact him and he always manages to find the right words to make me feel better. I rely on him whenever I need it. Always available and a great listener and advisor! Ever since I started talking to him, I now feel much better! Thank you :)
Best listener I have ever had! Thank you 😊
Wonderful angel
Very good listener, talks rationally and to the point.
Good listener!
Very attentive. I feel listened to
Since I started talking to him, I feel better! Maybe it's time, maybe not. But he's definitely a great listener! I confide in him every time! Thank you. :)
Really good listener. Paid so much attention to the detail and made me feel heard
Open , kind and an honest energy, someone feel can trust . Checked in with me too , recommend to any listener (A thank you :-) !!)
A very good listener, respectful and helpful
Great listener, really made me feel like I was being heard and being paid attention to.
Thanks for your words! Best one I had. 😊
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