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...See more Hello everyone! Hope you’re all doing well. Decided to come here today to vent a little as I’m feeling super down lately, specially today. I finished my masters in molecular biology in December and decided to look for a part time job while I decided to do a PhD or not. I got one this January , was a good salary and I kinda liked it even though I wasn’t working in my area of expertise. My parents live in a small village , and my boyfriend lives in the nearby city around 25 minutes by car. We decided I should move to his bedroom and stay there while I was working in the shopping mall 5 minutes by foot from his house as it would be easier for me. Was an incredible month, we ate together, talked everyday after work. I was getting used to it and we were super happy. Last week they called me to cancel the contract. I was speechless, suddenly I had no job , no money, didn’t even spent a month there. So I came back to my parents house today, because I can’t stay there without paying or contributing to anything. It’s not his house, he lives in a bedroom with other roomates. They like me a lot and we all get along but I didn’t pay rent, I was just in is room. I just feel like crying, I want to go back and spend my days with him. Our goal is for me to get a room there too. But I have no job now which means I have to be here with my parents again. I feel so empty , everybody around me has a job, or lives independently. My parents were always very overprotective of me and my sister to that’s why it’s so hard to stay here. I Have been dreaming to leave this house for so long and was almost there now I’m back to 0. I am hoping things don’t happen for a reason and I’ll be back to be living with him again!

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