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AtrainOC
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Disabled Wife - Not working wife - Fibromyalgia
Relationship Stress / by AtrainOC
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 November 6th
...See more OK, I will try this,  I have no idea what I am doing.  I have never asked for help and am not sure I know how.   I have been married to my wife for 16 years on Saturday.  Back in 2016, she was injured at work, workers compensation screwed her over and did nothing to help her with her injury.  Since her injury, she has fallen into an almost hermit state.  She is depressed and has anxiety and Fibromyalgia.  I have been the only one working since July 2016.  Things were okay for the First few years I was working in corporate America and we only had one child.  We now have 2 great kids.  So that gives you a little background. my daughter was born in 2017. Well here is where I am now.  I feel like I am the Cash cow for the family and that is all I am good for.  There are more often than not times that my wife says she is in pain or has a headache or Verdigo and can not do whatever is going on for that day.  The house does not get clean.  She does cook when she has to.  she does do laundry but folding at least her and my laundry is still in bags.  on top of that the Physical part of our relationship is very little too rarely there.  Please help me maybe have a different perspective.  I am at my wit's end I hate how I feel.    
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