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AngelWytch
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PathStep 69 Compassion hearts87 Forum posts42 Forum upvotes40 Current upvotes40 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2022 Member sinceOctober 15, 2019
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I wanna isolate myself from everyone again
Depression Support / by AngelWytch
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December 11th, 2020
...See more Not sure if this is the right part, but I need to get this off my chest. I've been here before and yall really helped me get back to a point where I could work on myself, but lately I've not been wanting to help myself very much. I love drawing, and had gotten back into it only to just stop again, I dont wanna work on my personal projects with my religious practices, I just...wanna sleep and not be bothered anymore. I still love my fiance and friends, but I just wanna hide under a rock and never come out. It feels worse than the last time I had to fight with my depression, and I dont know how to break free or at least get to a point where I want to care about something again. I want to spend mor time with my fiance, I know this is hurting him too, but I just dont have enough energy to do that and have day to day function it feels like. I dont know what to do and would appreciate some kind of advice or a point in the right direction?
Fiance wants XXX more than I do and it's taking a toll on me. Advice???
Relationship Stress / by AngelWytch
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December 7th, 2020
...See more POSSIBLE TRIGGER WARNING(?) Hi all. I'm not sure where to start on this, so I'm sorry if it's more of a ramble than a straightforward question. My fiance and I have known each other for years and been in a relationship for close to a year now. At first we were super happy and close together, but after I started working I didnt have enough time or energy to be as bubbly with him as before. I work overnight, and it's difficult for me to sleep during the day, so I try to keep to a schedule as much as possible. I come home, get comfortable, eat, maybe read or watch something and try to include him in this if he wants. Usually he doesnt want to and does his own thing. A big issue that arises is that hes a bit of a nympho and my libido has become nearly non existent for awhile now. For me personally, I just dont want/feel physical intimacy for whatever reasons. And it's taking a toll on the emotional side as well. At first, I aimed for once a week to try to help us both be closer, but now more like once a month. He feels neglected/unwanted and i tell him its not true, I'm just not in the mood, it still hurts him. He tries to...um...entice me(?) randomly playing with me, but I'm sensitive and if I'm not...in the mood, it feels uncomfortable or painful sometimes. I've tried explaining this to him and he said he understood, but it seems like hes desperate or forgotten because he started doing it again when I lay down to sleep. I dont know what to do. Any advice?
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