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Amov
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Old ex husband came back
Relationship Stress / by Amov
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6 hours ago
...See more Hello! Let me get straight to the point. My ex husband came back all of the sudden a month or two ago, hitting me with a lot of stuff at once. He never got my name off of the apartment we once shared and now got taken to court over it (I had to pay money for him to stay through the lease but he’s paying back the remaining amount owed), lost his job, during our entire marriage he was a secret alcoholic, went to the BHU for a “attempt”, and that he managed to get himself charged with a couple of felonies (for reasons I will not be discussing but just know it’s in relation to the drinking). I originally was happy to just know he was alive and in a serious of bad calls, “spent the night with him”. We set boundaries about being romantic today because he was rude to me so that part won’t happen again. I have stuck around to make sure that the apartment gets paid off but I’m mixed with my feelings. We are waiting to see what happens to him in terms of court or jail so I know how to proceed with getting this apartment off my back. I’m angry, confused, sad, and I’m sure something else I can’t remember. I know that this situation is a bit wild but any sort of advice or even kind words would be so helpful.
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Struggling with unmediated ADHD
ADHD Support / by Amov
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7 hours ago
...See more The last couple of months have been a nightmare for me in terms of my ADHD. I was diagnosed about a year ago and haven’t really taken medication for it. For a long time, I was just used to things being chaotic and I was working a job that I could do with my eyes closed so it didn’t affect it too badly. I ended up leaving that job due to the mental toll of taking a promotion that was not the right fit for me and now I’m without a job (I have one in the process but still). I feel like I have no grip on reality, I dissociate every once in awhile, I am constantly overstimulated, and my diet/sleep habits have suffered. I am not sure how to proceed with getting this taken care of and honestly am scared of trying medication. Any advice welcome honestly.